That's the Make You Wait zone. It's a grey area designed for her advantage and you can either be patient or smoothly escalate until she either complies or leaves.
I know I'll get in them guts, just wondering how long it's going to take.
That example means she’s an attention seeker and a tease. Most likely she’s already sleeping with a guy she likes or has a secret boyfriend she’s not telling you about because she doesn’t want you walking away. If she’s withholding sex but doing everything else, drop her now. It won’t get better. In fact it’ll gradually become less and less. The passionate make out will turn into quick pecks.
Well, we have our fourth date on Tuesday. She reached out to me yesterday, so I made the date. Guess we'll have to see if it intensifies or if you're right.
OP that's a bit of a passive attitude. You need to actively "intensify" and not just see if things "happen"
Patience is a virtue brah.
You can be patient and still ramp up the sexual tension if you choose to
I would agree with this. I have a rule if I don't smash by third date I forget about it and move on. I met a woman three weeks ago at a rock climbing gym here called edge. She was with a group, some work event. We just ended up talking and I found her cute enough so I asked for her number. We went out for drinks just a few days later, nothing serious. I then invited her last week to an improv event, I like to go to them regularly and I always have a good time and laugh my ass off. We got tapas after and things were progressing nicely so I invited her to my place after.
there’s a reason you haven’t smashed yet. Even if you do turn water in to wine, she will always see you as second choice.
You're probably not in the friendzone if you're getting passionate makeouts. The friendzone means zero sexual contact.
Is she a Polish Catholic chick?
