How can I talk "feelings" to women?

[MackToBe]

On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.

 

[Maximus_Decimus]

Originally posted by MackToBe
On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.

Make them laugh, tell stories (you can embed all sorts of feelings with stories), be a dominant man, kino her, and give them surprises. This is general stuff that any decent boyfriend/husband does on a daily basis.

Beyond that, you are looking at manipulating her emotional state. This is more advanced and may require such methods like NLP, etc.

Maximus_Decimus

 

[b's nuts]

this is a fairly easy thing to accomplish and can be a very powerful tool in evoking strong feelings in a girl. When she tells you a story or about something that happened (when its obvious that she was excited, happy, horny, etc whatever in her story) simply ask her "how did that make you feel" or "how did that feel" or "did that get you all excited" things along those lines. This is a very good way to talk to women as they make their dececions based more on how they "feel". Also witty humor is where it is at, its that witty humor that draws people to you that is known as being charming. Crude vulgar and dirty jokes are funny, don't get me wrong but witty is where you want to be.

wow finally a good question on this forum.

 

[MackToBe]

Originally posted by b's nuts
this is a fairly easy thing to accomplish and can be a very powerful tool in evoking strong feelings in a girl. When she tells you a story or about something that happened (when its obvious that she was excited, happy, horny, etc whatever in her story) simply ask her "how did that make you feel" or "how did that feel" or "did that get you all excited" things along those lines. This is a very good way to talk to women as they make their dececions based more on how they "feel". Also witty humor is where it is at, its that witty humor that draws people to you that is known as being charming. Crude vulgar and dirty jokes are funny, don't get me wrong but witty is where you want to be.

wow finally a good question on this forum.

Honestly? Thanks for the advice. Im no playa yet but if I keep bearing these DJ techniques in mind I soon will be.

 

[MackToBe]

Re: Re: How can I talk "feelings" to women?

Originally posted by Maximus_Decimus
Make them laugh, tell stories (you can embed all sorts of feelings with stories), be a dominant man, kino her, and give them surprises. This is general stuff that any decent boyfriend/husband does on a daily basis.

Beyond that, you are looking at manipulating her emotional state. This is more advanced and may require such methods like NLP, etc.

Maximus_Decimus

What is NLP exactly? looks like my homour could be in my favour. I always avoid the dirty jokes though when with the ladies.

 

[Brad324]

Originally posted by MackToBe
On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.

A few things I've learned from David D's interview series (I'm a subscriber).

If you're telling jokes, and you get 4 laughs out of 10, you're actually doing pretty good (doing better than Letterman right?)

I don't think it's the un-funny joke that's the bad part, it's how YOU respond to her disapproving of your joke. Don't joke to impress, joke because you're enjoying yourself and teasing. On the latest interview, David D tried to make a joke during the interview, and the girl just didn't understand it. But he dealt with it in a funny way. He went into detail and explained what he meant, then she was like "oh... haha", then immediately..
David: "I was just.. uh trying to be funny... I'll stop now.."
Laura: "no it WAS funny, I'm laughing"
David: "uh huh - courtesy laughter. Means alot. I feel like a king now."
Laura: *laughing*

 

[darthsidious]

Originally posted by MackToBe
On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.

Humor, sarcasm, neg-hits, are great. Don't worry about trying to be funny, say what YOU think is funny. You will find that if you LIKE a person, you'll laugh at everything they say. You will find that even the most stupidest things you will say will get a giggle/chuckle from those who like you whether it be from your fellow men or adoring women. Those who don't laugh don't really like you, and you should use that as an indicator of disinterest.

 

[darthsidious]

Originally posted by MackToBe
On many of this sites about macking they say talking facts are boring where as talking feelings to women isn't. Can someone give me a example of this? Also I know being humoruous is almost essential when with women but is sarcastic, witty humour ok? I don't mean it in a way to be nasty. On a plus side quite a few people have said Im really funny at times the only problem is I feel like If I say something that isn't funny women will be put off. Cheers.

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