How can I reveal this girl's mystery about what she likes in a man?

[alphamale1]

Hay

Im dating this chick who has been with a guy for two years and she moved to australia.
Im dating her at the moment and I popped the question once and she didnt reply so later i asked her again.

'What do u find sexy in a man?'

and she replies 'sense of humour'

Well ok, i know i know i have loads of sense of humour as i can always make her laugh....

I also show her that im chilvarous which i have read that woman love a man who treats her a like a princess but is also a lil rough as well (not a nice guy)

So on my last date with her, i demonstrated sense of humour, chilvarly, outrageous, mysterious, challenge, fun, direct and some other stuff.

Now my question is.......i displayed all that and i still dont know whether she likes me or whether that is something she could get to like....which makes me think she doesnt really know what she wants in a man and that she isnt all that picky....

Would i be right and what is a excellent way to get this out of her?

Ben

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Get her a "Ken" doll. Its purpose is to become anything that the girl wants. Do you want to become her doll?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Get her a "Ken" doll. Its purpose is to become anything that the girl wants. Do you want to become her doll?

Right on. If she said, "someone who will buy me a car", would you have bought her a car?

The monetary cost is different, but the message is the same...you're supplicating. If you're going to be funny, be funny because you're a funny guy, not because some chick likes to laugh at you.

Never ask a girl what she wants in a man directly. You should be able to divine it through her actions and the stories she tells. And if that's not what you want to be, don't change to be something you don't want to be. Find a girl who appreciates YOU.

 

[DeathDealer]

most of them say all the same things, what they won't tell you is:

physical attraction.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by DeathDealer
most of them say all the same things, what they won't tell you is:

physical attraction.

This is very true. Also what they won't tell you outright until you are REALLY close with them is that they know in a matter of seconds (much like guys) if they are sexually attracted to you. If they are the door is more open than otherwise (obviously).

The bad thing with most guys is that they may not 'get her wet' at first glance. That's when they start playing the game of becoming friends and taking it slow. What that means in layman's terms is "I'm not attracted to you now but since you are supplicating to me, I'll keep you around and maybe (if you're extremely lucky) I may become attracted to you (but don't count on it).

I get flamed a lot for not giving women more time to figure out if there is a chance after seeing them once or twice. The truth is they already know if there is chemistry. I've been lucky enough to draw this out of women without asking (KINO) and determine whether there is mutual chemistry. If there is, we stay on course, if not I change targets quicker than a heartbeat. Why waste time on what might happen?

 

[DJBen]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
This is very true. Also what they won't tell you outright until you are REALLY close with them is that they know in a matter of seconds (much like guys) if they are sexually attracted to you. If they are the door is more open than otherwise (obviously).

The bad thing with most guys is that they may not 'get her wet' at first glance. That's when they start playing the game of becoming friends and taking it slow. What that means in layman's terms is "I'm not attracted to you now but since you are supplicating to me, I'll keep you around and maybe (if you're extremely lucky) I may become attracted to you (but don't count on it).

I get flamed a lot for not giving women more time to figure out if there is a chance after seeing them once or twice. The truth is they already know if there is chemistry. I've been lucky enough to draw this out of women without asking (KINO) and determine whether there is mutual chemistry. If there is, we stay on course, if not I change targets quicker than a heartbeat. Why waste time on what might happen?

Check that out. I dont need to post what I was gonna post now.

 

[MRomeo99]

As usual Francisco nailed it right on the head. Good job.

One thing I'd like to reiterate. NEVER ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU, OR WHAT SHE LIKES.

You're trying to be an alpha male right(ie your pseudonym). Would an alpha male give a damn what she likes, or would an alpha male just assume that she can't help herself as she becomes attracted to you.

Don't ask, just do. Asking her shows insecurity on your part.

Good luck.

--Romeo--

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by MRomeo99
As usual Francisco nailed it right on the head. Good job.

One thing I'd like to reiterate. NEVER ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU, OR WHAT SHE LIKES.

You're trying to be an alpha male right(ie your pseudonym). Would an alpha male give a damn what she likes, or would an alpha male just assume that she can't help herself as she becomes attracted to you.

Don't ask, just do. Asking her shows insecurity on your part.

Good luck.

--Romeo--

exactly. Asking on your behalf about anything related to guys will present insecurity and place you in friends zone. Only friends gossip about stuff like this.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by MRomeo99
As usual Francisco nailed it right on the head. Good job.

One thing I'd like to reiterate. NEVER ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU, OR WHAT SHE LIKES.

You're trying to be an alpha male right(ie your pseudonym). Would an alpha male give a damn what she likes, or would an alpha male just assume that she can't help herself as she becomes attracted to you.

Don't ask, just do. Asking her shows insecurity on your part.

Good luck.

--Romeo--

Now THAT'S a DJ attitude!

 

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by MRomeo99
Don't ask, just do. Asking her shows insecurity on your part.

what i was going to say couldnt have been put together better in a sentence.

 

[alphamale1]

Thanks guys

I appreciate your comments and i got this 'what do you find sexy in a man?' from some website and on one occasion, i asked this other woman and she says

'Ambition, sense of humour, rarara'

and then she said 'what do you find sexy in a woman?'

and i replied rarara

Anyway I believe in whats u's are saying more than the advice i got from a website. It makes sense.

If i ask her what she likes then obviously i am trying to become that man which in a way gives her power because she then knows 'hey i'll just make some cool **** up and maybe this guy might become it, this will be fun, i have control over this jackwuss'.

Ok i will never ask a woman 'what do u find sexy in a man?'

Cheers

Ben