On Thursday night I met 3 gorgeous girls at a bar with a friend. We all had a great time, chatting, laughing and having a few drinks.
I was flirting with one of them who I think may have liked me.
Anyway, one of the other girls had a boyfriend so she was a bit reserved talking to my friend and I and eventually suggested that her friends leave the bar, despite the other 2 having a great time.
So they went off to leave and I must have had some sort of mental aneuryism as I failed to ask for the girls number who I liked. I just sat there like a chump and wished them well.
Anyway, I was able to find one of the other girls Facebook profiles (not the b*tchy one) through some detective work (searching her first name, and education). Unfortunately the one I liked mentioned that she does not have Facebook.
So, I was thinking...should I message her friend and say something like:
"Hey Jess,
It's Spax from the other night. I was wondering if you could send me your friend Amanda's phone number? I'd love to catch up with her some time.
Hope you guys didn't get too drunk for the rest of the night. ;-) "
Is that okay? Or is that creepy because she will be thinking "How the fuuuck did this dude find my Facebook profile??"
How can I pull this off without being a creep and what do you think of my message to her friend?
CLIFFS -
- Met 3 girls at a bar.
- Had a great time but failed to get number (yes, retard)
- Found one of them's Facebook profile through detective skills
- Thinking of sending her a message asking for her hottie friend's number for me.
- Concerned it might be creepy or will just crash and burn. Any better options?
I was flirting with one of them who I think may have liked me.
Anyway, one of the other girls had a boyfriend so she was a bit reserved talking to my friend and I and eventually suggested that her friends leave the bar, despite the other 2 having a great time.
So they went off to leave and I must have had some sort of mental aneuryism as I failed to ask for the girls number who I liked. I just sat there like a chump and wished them well.
Anyway, I was able to find one of the other girls Facebook profiles (not the b*tchy one) through some detective work (searching her first name, and education). Unfortunately the one I liked mentioned that she does not have Facebook.
So, I was thinking...should I message her friend and say something like:
"Hey Jess,
It's Spax from the other night. I was wondering if you could send me your friend Amanda's phone number? I'd love to catch up with her some time.
Hope you guys didn't get too drunk for the rest of the night. ;-) "
Is that okay? Or is that creepy because she will be thinking "How the fuuuck did this dude find my Facebook profile??"
How can I pull this off without being a creep and what do you think of my message to her friend?
CLIFFS -
- Met 3 girls at a bar.
- Had a great time but failed to get number (yes, retard)
- Found one of them's Facebook profile through detective skills
- Thinking of sending her a message asking for her hottie friend's number for me.
- Concerned it might be creepy or will just crash and burn. Any better options?