How bad is the pressure to marry?

Epicwinguy

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When you are past 26? I am thinking of the military and then will likely be a virgin for yet another 4 years. Can I still have fun past then without hearing **** for it?
 

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If you're over 30 and unmarried, people will automatically think something is wrong with you. If you're ok with that you'll be fine. No point getting married just to get divorced.
 

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If you join the military and don't get laid there is something deeply wrong with you.

I'm about to be 31 and I am not married nor have kids or a girlfriend, Just spinning plates, no one has said anything to me that I can remember, I'm sure people talk behind my back about it and have all types of speculations....all of them not warranted cause of a simple life choice which goes against, societies norms. I'm enjoying my life and would be more worried if I broke in too the pressure cause that would make me a weak minded follower. Just today some lady was telling me about how she regrets getting married and having kids, she told me sternly don't do it..she said one kid fine, but its just too much expense and stress and loss of freedom
 

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To prevent rumors, every time the topic is brought up you say you don't want to marry. If you don't want to marry of course. If they ask why then say you don't feel like it, end of discussion.

I mean these days we should be free enough to choose that without unnecessary judgement and pressure. I'm probably gonna do it myself in a few years maybe, but certainly not because a bunch of people I don't know (society) expects me to. Certainly not out of pressure, either I want it myself or it's not gonna happen.

You just gotta be crystal clear and unapologetic on your stance, there's no shame in not wanting to marry. There is shame in shaming others for it though.
 

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In larger urban cores like NYC, LA, DC, Miami, Chicago, San Fran, etc. the pressure is almost non-existent until you hit 35-40.

Also.. just like the "friend zone" is a CHOICE weak men make.. so is feeling "pressure" to do something you don't want to do. In the end we all have 100% free will 24/7. We only feel pressure to do something when we make other people's opinions more important than our own. If YOU want to stay single.. that is really all that matters. Your sex life is really none of anyone else's business. If you being single makes people uncomfortable.. that says more about them than you.

Remember.. the status quo pushes the blue pill agenda that benefits women and society at the expense of men. So.. of course it bothers women when certain men refuse to fall in line. When MEN are uncomfortable with you being single.. its because you refuse to validate their faggot mindset, faggot values and faggot life choices to be ruled by a woman under state law and financially enslaved regardless of whether the marriage works out.
 

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I get pressure from my parents at 27 for grandkids, then they make it clear they really don't want me to have kids with a woman without marrying her. I joke and tell them I may consider it when I'm 40+.

I see no point in marriage other than to create an environment with which to raise children. Until I find a woman meeting enough of the qualifications to do so, I will stay single.

Get a good lawyer before you get married as well. You'll get taken to the cleaners if she ever decides to leave.
 

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Do not join the military, go directly to the Phillipines, Thailand or Vietnam.

EyeBRollin: Are lesbian marriages allowed in your state? You should go hangout at BLM events, maybe you could hook up with Jaylan's Tranny brother.
 

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Yes, I get pressure from my parents because they have this obsession with wanting grandkids. I don't want to get married or have kids. I don't want to slave away just to feed several mouths.

I just want to take care of myself and myself alone. No one else.
 

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If you're over 30 and unmarried, people will automatically think something is wrong with you. If you're ok with that you'll be fine. No point getting married just to get divorced.
Carrie Bradshaw, is that you?

Maybe in 1950 if you weren't married people thought something was wrong with you.
 

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Marriage is a ball and chain and extremely over rated. A 10k wedding (cheap nowdays) breaks down like this. $9,900 for her needs and your lousy tux is $100. That carries on into the marriage. It's a new a very different world out there. Think about it!
 

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Marriage is a ball and chain and extremely over rated. A 10k wedding (cheap nowdays) breaks down like this. $9,900 for her needs and your lousy tux is $100. That carries on into the marriage. It's a new a very different world out there. Think about it!
Yup. That's all a wedding is these days. An overrated day that has been twisted into satisfying her sick princess fantasy.
 

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I told my dad as a joke that I don't want to get married when I saw this thread (I do actually wish to marry, but for my own reasons). Well he told me "so then what are you going to do with it? Cut it off?" Lol, whether I marry or not, I'm still using my it.
So anyway, I'd say the pressure is still real, but only as much as you let ot pressure you.
 

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Getting married is just admitting your weakness. Keep jocking the bitches, slapping the hoes
 

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Yes, I get pressure from my parents because they have this obsession with wanting grandkids. I don't want to get married or have kids. I don't want to slave away just to feed several mouths.

I just want to take care of myself and myself alone. No one else.
If you DO get married, then you SACRIFICE your LIFE from THEN on, to the woman. Because Women are totally selfish, and if you do not cater to her wishes, she will say, "It's not working out..." Divorce, and then you lose, as always, and the kids created by your sperm and her egg are HERS ONLY. They are not Your kids. She thinks that in her mind (ALL women think this). The Courts think this as well. The kids are Hers not yours.

It's sad, but this is reality.

I'm never married, and no kids. It's sad, but all women are wh0res, all women are sociopaths, all women are incapable of Emotion, incapable of Love. MEN are the romantic ones, the ones who deeply love, who are the emotional ones. It's all a Big Lie, that women are all these things. Most of them are serial Monogamous relationship enders. They start a relationship, cut the male loose, start another relationship, cut the male loose.

We males run Parallel relationships, so we Love each woman equally and have lots of Love to Give. Women are incapable of truly GIVING as well. They Always expect something in return. Even your Mother will give up on you in time and not Give you unconditional love.

All these women WORLDWIDE are also incapable of Guilt and looking themselves honestly in the mirror. They are incapable of taking a step back and viewing themselves outside of their own minds, that is why they are Never Wrong, will never admit they are wrong, and view themselves forever as pristine angelic beings, and anything in the past she did dirty, was not her fault...she was a Victim, so her behavior was justified (destroying the man), and she will forever sweep it under the rug and forget the whole thing. They are totally WILD ANIMALS, and our present society, with NO checks and balances anymore, allows these wild animals to roam freely and behave Any Way They Want.

This is Reality of affairs right now, today, but woman have ALWAYS been the greatest Deception Machines since the beginning of Time, since the Adam and Eve, since the beginning of woman. It's women's Nature to be a Wh0re. It is how the Survive. They have no other way.

Our nature is to inseminate as many and different women as possible so marriage is really not natural to our healthy lives as males. Marriage shrinks a man, and he grows tired (I'd even say after the honeymoon, a mere 2 weeks) of the woman, no matter how much she varies her sexual performance (MOST will NOT try to be good in bed, they just lay there). It's depressing, but this is reality, and a woman should be looking to snare a Young and naive male early on if she's ever going to be able to have Complete Control of his life for life.
 
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