How are normal guys able to get women to submit

Lookatu

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What you see is respect, mistaken for submission.
I agree with this. There is a fine line and is often blurred by people that can't tell the difference.

One is driven by fear for the most part. The other is voluntary and given like a gift.

The pic depicts the difference between someone that is an actual leader vs someone that is a dictator.

Dictators in relationships are the ones that are insecure and often seek submission over respect.
 

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I'll tell you one thing....Mutual respect trumps submission any day. There is a difference. Anyone who manages people for a living will tell you that. It applies to your personal relationships as well.

I recall a woman I was considering putting in the dating rotation. She started off bringing me a beer at an event so I hung out there with her and her friend. Pretty soon she askes me "Hey you want another beer?" I said "No I gotta go get on the road pretty soon..."

She said "Damn, I was gonna tell you to bring us a couple as well"

"Alright I'll catch you later..." And I turned on my heel and left.

Every time I've seen her since she has bought me a beer without me asking....But I've also returned the favor without asking...

It is about Leading from the Front. "I'm going here, you can follow"



What you see is respect, mistaken for submission.
Great illustration
 
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