Reyaj
Master Don Juan
editdivide said:Guys got to stop referring women as "hot".
This is giving women the power.
Why don't you seek out women with character and true internal beauty?
As difficult as it is to believe once you do that you'll find in your life more women than you could handle.
I never get how men can put on this bravado that they are not affected by attractive women in their real life experiences, yet behind closed doors or among their friends they talk about women being "hot", how much they'd like to smash them, or do X or Y to them. This kind of talk takes your power away and is the reason why these kinds of threads appear even in a place privileged as sosuave where men have the available information to liberate their minds.
The moment I stopped referring to any woman as "hot" was the moment I began to actually treat them like regular people. What happened was that I found a lot of traits of the women I met repulsive. What did it do for them? They began to chase because they found someone who didn't see her as anything special from the rest, unless she has earned it.
I wish more people shared this view...