hot girls with ugly guys

[hb]

I see BANGIN GIRLS with UGLY GUYS alll the timeee, its been happening too often. It makes me maaaaad. I look better then these guys so how the F$@k did they get these girls? Game cannot be enoughhh. It just gets me frustrated that i could have these same girls but i dont know how to go about it exactly. My game is bad. And the problem is, i dont know what i need to improve on.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

You are too handsome - just get ugly!

 

[MetalFortress]

Insecurity, jealousy, lack of confidence, are things you need to improve on.

 

[Lafarge]

There is one serious psychological theory that says a hot girl will generally go with a dud looker of a guy because she wants to stand out and get all the attention and not him.

 

[Genghis Juan]

Another theory why a HB9 will go with an average or ugly dude is because she feels he will treat her better becuase he is less likely to replace the HB9 with another HB9. If she was a hot dude like you, he would replace her and not treat her like a queen.

 

[AFK Protector]

Wait, that goes against the phucking bible!!! I thought women don't go for the nice guys!!! ARGH!!!!!

 

[Black Bahindian]

Actually, there are plenty of reasons why this occurs:

-The ugly guy has the uncanny game to pull any woman he wanted
-The guy is less likely to replace her as GJ said
-The guy is a rich bastard and the girl's a golddigger
-The girl is drunk at the moment, and the guy is looking like an adonis to her
-The girl's playing a practical joke on the guy
-The guy threatened her at gunpoint to go on a date with him
-The woman is mentally imbalanced and somehow all ugly guys look hot to her
-All of the ugly guys that go out with hot girls are actually good-looking guys in disguise with the sole purpose to confuse the crap out of hb

See what I'm trying to say here?

**** happens. No DJ line, technique, or mentality will stop **** from happening. The world is unique like that. However, don't let this discourage you. That is probably why the "don't give a ****" attitude is so effective. Whenever something doesn't go your way or if something comes along that messes up your game, you can just brush it off instead of emotionally succumbing into it.

Don't let it get to you man. For every hot chick with an ugly guy, there are plenty others looking for DJs to take them.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

There are a couple of things to address here. First of all, the definition of "ugly". You may have experienced times when you were out with your friend and beautiful woman crosses your path... an 8.5, maybe even a 9. You point her out to your friend, and he thinks you're off your rocker... he'd give her a 5 if she put a bag over her head. And vice versa... you'll shake your head at the taste of some of your friends. They think they landed Charlize Theron from "The Italian Job", but they really were nailing Charlize Theron from "Monster".

But when it comes to judging the attractiveness of women, we guys are finely tuned machines and we get lots of practice. But unless you wear tight pink t-shirts and renamed yourself "Skittles", the same isn't true of you when it comes to judging the attractiveness of guys. So understand that it's possible that you aren't the world's foremost authority on what guys are "hot" and which guys are dogs.

However, some people are physically unattractive by almost any standard (a face only a mother could love). In general, people are most attracted to people who are roughly equally attractive. So if I'm a 7, then I'm going to be most attracted and most secure in a relationship with a chick who's a 7. If a 5 is with a 9, then chances are that the 5 will screw things up with the 9 because of insecurity, unless the 5 is overloaded with self-esteem. All things being equal, opposites do NOT attract over the long-term.

However, you should also understand that women have different thought processes than guys, and as a result they are not attracted in exactly the same way. Many women are more likely than men to overlook physical appearance if a guy is extraordinary in other ways. I've known women who went for guys who were less than stellar in the physical appearance department because a guy was a good musician, another because the guy was so funny that he commanded the attention of the whole room whenever he was around, and yet another because the guy devoted a lot of his free time to mentoring and helping children.

Another thing that's very important is the girl's state of mind when she meets the guy. If her self-esteem is low because of a harsh breakup, or because she's with other girls who are a little hotter so they're getting all of the male attention, or maybe she just came back from her high school reunion and feels like she has been a failure... whatever the reason, if her self-esteem has recently been lowered, she's more likely to be interested in guys she otherwise wouldn't be.

All that being said, you need to get the chip off your shoulder. The fact that you may think you're hotter than another guy doesn't make you any more deserving of female attention than that guy. In fact, it's an attitude like that -- based on jealousy and insecurity -- that is more likely to repel women away from you. And maybe into the arms of an "uglier" guy.

 

[hb]

i think you guys would agree that we can spot a pimp when we see one, right? but i know of a girl that has been with her man for 2 f*cken years, and this kid is the ugliest kid u would ever meet in ur life, but he has confidence. Another thing is theres this girl thats an 8 and she constantly talks about how shes sooo inlove with this 5. He treats her veryyyyyyy good and she does like him.

so heres a tip for all u DON JUANS

F#CK THE JERK ATTITUDE, NICE GUYS DO GET GIRLS!


Im the jerk of jerks and im definitely not gettin with as many girls as i possibly could.


Now my problem is that my jerk attitude is not an act. I just despise cant take some of these girls bull**** and i hateeeee ATTENTION WH@RES. holy **** i mean my personlity has gotten me rejected so many ****en times, and girls are often saying "Oh he looks good but his personality is sh!tty"
and im not even tryin to be that sh!tty personality guy.
AND THEN I SEE THESE HERBS WITH THESE GIRLS.

Be a NICE GUY

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

HB,

The hell with titles of 'jerk' vs 'nice guy' - you could be a jerk and still be nice, there is a balance! Just be a man and not a supplicating fool. Some women like 'nice guys' because they can rule over them easily - if you want to be a doormat then there are many girls that are happy to wipe their feet on you.

Some women want men who treat them with respect and they call that 'nice'. It depends what you define as 'nice'!

Just don't give up your masculinity and become a wimp (weak and ineffectual) to satisfy a woman!

 

[Trapspringer]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
Wait, that goes against the phucking bible!!! I thought women don't go for the nice guys!!! ARGH!!!!!

Man, you have to get away from thinking the bible is the ten commandments for dating.

There really is some great stuff in the bible but a lot of it is theory and goes against actual experience. Women don't value looks as much as men. That is why the word "confidence' is thrown around this board so often. Think of confidence as the equivalence in value with women as looks as are to men and that may decrease the confusion. When you throw in sex appeal, it can become even clearer and sex appeal doesn't always mean great looking face.

 

[ScrewIt]

i know how you feel dude, i feel the same way!

i read somewhere online, about handsome, wider jaw-boned guys vs, guys that had more feminine features with a curved faced and how girls perceive them.

too bad i lost the website if not i would post it.

wider jaw-boned guys are considered to be "players" and good for quick sex. while the curved face guys are more reliable for long term relationships and are more trustworthy.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Mods, please delete ScrewIt's post for gross incompetence and misleading young impressionable minds!!

 

[Genghis Juan]

Dude,

Also, after college, women look for more than just a guy who is "hot" as you deem it (built up, and John Stamos look alike). Women are programmed to look for resources and strength. Men are programmed to look for youth and beauty. Furthermore, like Casanova said, women are pretty subjective about guys. There really isn't a "male standard of beauty" in society as there is for women. Lets face it, guys are just not that good looking. Like Seinfeld said, we're just utalitarian, plain square bodies.

Guys who are in the range of 6 or above can land an HB9 if he wants to. But you must have the internal game and resources and class. Its the classic double standard the we as men, assume women apply to us, but they dont. Example:

If anyone of us was on par with John Stamos in looks and had a DJ personality, NONE of us would EVER EVER go with any girls below HB8 no matter the personality.

On the other hand, an HB9 blonde bombshell will go with a "plain" guy (not necessarily ugly) if his OVERALL package is good and has "alot to offer". Especially if she is post college age.

Just my thoughts.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Nice guy or Jerk???!!! Is it so hard just to be interesting?

 

[baracus]

John Stamos?

You sure are hung up on Uncle Deadbeat from Full House!

 

[Genghis Juan]

Than I guess you feel the same way I do!

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Re: John Stamos?

Originally posted by baracus
You sure are hung up on Uncle Deadbeat from Full House!

Genghis Juan is John Stamos. He comes on this site when he's not doing 10-10-220 commercials with his mommy.

 

[Abbott]

Originally posted by hb
I see BANGIN GIRLS with UGLY GUYS alll the timeee, its been happening too often. It makes me maaaaad. I look better then these guys so how the F$@k did they get these girls? Game cannot be enoughhh. It just gets me frustrated that i could have these same girls but i dont know how to go about it exactly. My game is bad. And the problem is, i dont know what i need to improve on.

First off, quit whining because it won't help you. I could whine about the fact that I don't get women while some other men do, despite the fact that crappy as my facilities are, they're better than that of the men who do get women. When I say facilities, I mean like how the man who does get women may be someone who doesn't have a car (I don't see how he lives, but that's just me) and SHARES his two bedroom apartment with a roommate, while I live alone and my car, crappy it may be, is better than that of many people (I drive a '99 Ford Ranger XLT Ext. Cab, BTW) and their crappy compact cars (it seems that a large portion of university students have compact cars).

I realize I just did what I said NOT to do, but I didn't want you to confuse what I meant by facilities. Anyway, I digress.

Here's a tip: Try observing people who have better success, and see what they do or don't do differently from how you do or don't do things.

An example if this: The carless fool I mentioned above seems to initiate more conversations with women than I do and instead of waiting around like I do he doesn't wait as long to talk to them, so naturally he has better success though I have better facilities than he does.

I hope that what I wrote is of help to you.

Ben

 

[StockTrader]

On the subject of older guys and younger girls, I only have one comment:

Tonight at the Oscars, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones. She looked absolutely spectacular. Michael Douglas must be the happiest man in the world, bar none.