Hot Girls Chase Harder

[freshstartin2008]

One thing I've realized during this summer is how hard hot girls chase guys they are interested in. They lose any sense of social convention and appropriateness and do whatever they want. I've never had a problem attracting girls at night, and seeing them IOI like crazy, but seeing this during the day is a totally different experience.

I think the reason for this is that they have been given so much validation explicitly or implicitly about how "hot" they are physically, they think they can have or get anything guy they want using any "techniques" they want.

This is what I've seen myself: no one will tell these girls they are behaving inappropriately, except other catty, jealous girls who will talk behind their back. The guys are either incredibly embarrassed or turned on, and don't want to let it show, or are chasing them ridiculously hard, giving them validation, ignoring IOD's and still pursuing to bother telling these girls what they are doing "right" and "wrong."

It also shows me how the social dynamic has transformed in recent times. Hot girls are allowed to do just about anything they want: insults, taunts, tooling guys who are chodes; then completely falling over themselves chasing guys they like. Most guys are so clueless in the computer driven age, they are absolutely socially inept and give hot girls validation regardless of their behavior.

My rant for today, he he.

 

[Canadian Catnip]

I saw something like this as well. I buy coffee at this trendy coffee shop downtown, very artsy there.

I've notices several times when I've gone in there that there is one guy that works there that is average looking but the hot women throw the puss at him all the time. Women see something in this guy, perhaps he got a reputation or there is something else about him that women dig, I can't see it.

He kind of shrugs it off but the women become more aggressive and do all kinds of things.

I have seen women leaning over the counter to grab him. Some women make a grab for him if he comes out from behind the counter. They will put their arms around him and kiss him on the cheek. He just pauses, stands still and waits until it's over, then moves on with a courteous smile.

If a guy did any of those things to a women he would be thrown in jail in a second. But this poor guy has to suffer through it.

No matter how cool or how much of a DJ I become I can't imagine liking dozens of women clawing and pawing at me all day long if I am trying to work. I would want there to be an off switch.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Hotter girls have lower self esteem. Many hot girls feel that guys are so intimidated by them, that they don't get hit on enough. The girls who are the most insecure about their looks are the hot girls.

Think about when you go to the mall and you see the fat b!tch who has the pants on where it says "cutie" or "hottie" along the ass. They for some reason have higher self esteem and think they are so beautiful.

 

[ezily]

Hotter girls have lower self esteem. Many hot girls feel that guys are so intimidated by them, that they don't get hit on enough. The girls who are the most insecure about their looks are the hot girls.

Think about when you go to the mall and you see the fat b!tch who has the pants on where it says "cutie" or "hottie" along the ass. They for some reason have higher self esteem and think they are so beautiful.

yeah I don't buy that at all.

Some hot girls have low self esteem. But compared to the fat ugly girls you speak of they have much higher self-esteem. I mean those ugs never get hit on. So by your logic they should have the lowest.

I would say that the hot girls with lower self esteem are not as *****y as the ones who think they are hot (even if they aren't). Those girls often think they are too good for you.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Great thread. And I have noticed the same. Fat ugly as sh1t girls act Real sh1tty towards me, but the really hot ones (both young and old) actually Reach and GRAB my fvckin arm sometimes. I'm like, "what the fvck are you doing?" there are people around, Strangers! watching us. It's hard to find a well-balanced woman in this world. They're either too cold or too hot. Almost all of them are fvcked in the head though.

 

[Aristotle]

I agree that having a DJ off-switch would be very nice, but a true DJ cannot just turn this off because it is just the way he is. To turn this off is to not be himself, and it follows that this just isn't possible for a true DJ. This is true for women, too.

I do think constantly being hit on can make things a bit difficult, but only in the way that a buffet makes it difficult to choose what to pick eat, especially when you consider that you want a little of everything at a buffet. What men and women who are constantly hit on develop is a wide variety of choices, and we all like choices; the more, the merrier. So while these folks will have many romantic choices, the majority are simply flirtatious relationships waiting for a move to be made to further the standing. These folks know they have to make the move, which they will likely never make because they put the relationship in that situation.

So when they do want to make that move, they are pretty much justified in doing anything because the opposite sex desires anything from the person to be done to them. Thus, greats gals and DJs knows they have a lot of leeway in what they do to the opposite sex, so they take advantage of this.

There are some bad things about constantly being hit on, such as having to constantly turn people down, but the powerful means that these people can use is certainly one of the positive aspects of being attractive.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Hotter girls have lower self esteem. Many hot girls feel that guys are so intimidated by them, that they don't get hit on enough. The girls who are the most insecure about their looks are the hot girls.

Oh man, I know how that is said alot but thats a myth.

Hot girls DO get hit on alot by guys. Of course there are probably guys they see attractive who ARE too intimidated, but they will get hit on.

I'm not saying they are getting hit on by "pros" "naturals" "DJs" or whatever, but they DO get hit on.

But i think ur kinda right because they get so much validation that whenever there is a time where they DONT get validation (and it does happen at some point or another), they start doing crazy things and get low self esteem.

 

[ricorico]

The myth going around hot girls do not get hit on is just that!

There was a test done once with "hot girls". Forgot who did it, but it was some sort of radio show. The hot girls who said they never got hit on were followed . It showed how girls did get hit on a lot. Usually by average guys. But since the girls usually got hit on by men they had no interest in they would say "no guys hit on them".

Does anyone really think a beautiful woman walks round and no one pays attention to her? I know some very hot girls and guys from 15-80 will try to talk to them. But the girls will discount the guys they are not interested in in the "nobody" pile. Therefore "noone ever ask me for a date" means lots of guys ask me out. Just noone I'm interested in.

I remember watching the Conan O'Brain show last February. There was a gorgeous "Victoria's Secret" model saying "nobody " ever ask me out. Any guy who cannot read between those lines and believes that BS needs to go out more . Unless he really believes the whole population of men are gay or scared of women.

But I personally also know some damned ****y guys and see ****y guys all over the place where I live. ****y guys can look like Shrek and still think they can pick up Jessica Alba looking chicks.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Yes. Anyone who says hot girls don't get hit on never go out. At all.

I was walking down the street and there was the most beautiful chick at the entrance to a club, and she had three guys playing the "defend you from other guys" game, I went up to her and cracked a joke but she was way older than me and (currently) out of my league.

My point is, ricorico is right. They overexaggerate things. They don't consider an average guy approaching them a legitimate "hit on" or "approach"

They just call it "stalking"

 

[Acq]

I was having a severe oneitis with an extremely hot girl who suddenly began to stalk me.. by walking on my street almost daily, applying for a job in my company, by sending her MOTHER to see me at work.. once she saw me exit the local fitness club and joined the next day...etc, I can go on for pages here.

Anyway, when I finally asked her for a date she agreed but I changed my mind..

Im an average guy but strangely "hot" girls frequenly approach me. Not that I complain about it.. Maybe the reason is that I'm probably the tallest guy in our small town with 70 000 of inhabitants ? I live in a small European country where 6 feet is considered "tall", with me being about 6 feet 5".