Hook Up Buddy to Girlfriend...Is that possible???

[Jus_LikeCandy]

I would like to know how many of you would actually consider making a girl you hook up with casually a girlfriend?? Does this break some sort of rule, and is the even a consideration through your sexcapades......Do tell.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

When you are in controll and you are happy and you like yourself, you can do whatever you want and on your terms. If you like the girl, and you want something more, you take her in and be happy; looking for advice on following any particular set of rules on this type of dynamic is a form of approval seeking.

In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Good answer.....

 

[Golden Arms]

Why would I want to ? If she's giving it up, but I don't have to "date" her - why would I want to screw up a perfect arrangement ?

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......

Are you posting this because you'd like to upgrade a guy from a f*ckbuddy to a boyfriend ? If that's the case my advice is stop giving it up and you'll see how much he really cares about you

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Exactly!!!! We have been messing around for a year and a half now and we are both infatuated with each other and we have already discussed this. I want more than fvckbuddies. I am just wondering if a guy can ever see a fvck buddy in a different way.

 

[Golden Arms]

Well, stop sleeping with him and you will have your answer