guru1000
Master Don Juan
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The most important characteristic of Honor, is honoring thyself. And with this Honor, a woman cannot exploit or manipulate.Rollo Tomassi said:As Men we're respected when we keep our word, sacrifice ourselves (even to the point of disposability), solve problems rationally, say what we mean - mean what we say, and a whole host of other qualifiers that make us respectable and worthy of integrity. We must be OVERT and above board; and when we encounter a man who is COVERT in his dealings we call him 'shifty' or untrustworthy.
But it's just this OVERT masculine nature that women are only too ready to exploit.
After all, if a woman shames, exploits or manipulates, it is simply because YOU LET HER. This is associated with lack of honor if your paramount rule is to ALWAYS honor yourself.
These words honor, integrity and respect are thrown here and manipulated to fit the poster's very way of thinking. However, at the end of the day no matter how often you manipulate these attributes, it is the man who possesses genuine integrity and honor who will consistently own the frame of interactions. By honoring himself, it is either PUT UP or SHUT UP. If the context is compromised, he walks away. There are no thoughts of pain/pleasure, just the ACTION of ejecting from an unfavorable rapport. This can only be done (without a thought), when one implements a code of honor which includes honoring thyself as the cardinal rule, before honoring others.
And this gentlemen, is how HONOR will ALWAYS serve as an asset and in no way, shape or form may this implementation of honor be misconstrued as a liability.