Honest opinion ONLY!

[HappyHobo]

Evaluate carefully:

Me and this girl were supposed to go on a date.
The day of the date she said she could not make it because of a conflict with her work.
She apologizes profusely and feels bad but says she has to go to her work because it is very important.
I say it happens and was like whatever.
Havent talked to her since.

What should I do in the spot I am at right now?
Should I:

A) Ask her out for another date, making it an exception just this time

B) Don't call for a while and just forget abotu her

C) Call her and tell her what she did was wrong and say she can make it up to me personally

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

B! B! B! B! !!!!!!

Forget her for a bit and call her out of the blue.

Tell her that you have plans for the evening and invite her along. SHe will appreciate your time a lot more. If she tries to make excuses, then...

NEXT!

 

[NewMan]

Don't call her back RIGHT away.... wait a couple of days then call her and reschedule.

Any fvcking about - you next her.

 

[bp1974]

When she cancelled you should have asked her to suggest an alternative (counteroffer). Then you'd know where you stood with this chick and you wouldn't have to worry about when to call her.

 

[HappyHobo]

If i were to counteroffer that would make it seem too needy.
Its like asking twice for one thing.

I have these tickets to this comedy show, should i call her and invite her a long or go without her.

I want to go with her but i dont want to ask her and have her say she cant beacuse she is busy with work or whatever.
Because then i would seem like such an afc.
Timing is everything and is right now the time?

 

[Stamina]

C!!!!! HAHA

aight well i'll be serious and say B

Give it sometime before you ask her. Take someone else to the show, its too soon to talk with this girl. If you give it enough time and shes really interested then she'll start asking you why you haven't called her or don't talk to her, just watch. When she sees that your not gonna be some afc and keep calling asking for dates she;ll start chasing u.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

Maybe it was an excuse, maybe it was a lie. WHo knows, only that girl does. You should have just said, well we'll get together some other time. See what her reaction was, etc.

I'd wait a few days to call her again.


On this site, too many people live on here. In the real world, PEOPLE DO have lives. I've canceled dates plenty of times in my life and girls have. People work, have families, have lives.

If it was, oh i have to go get my nails done, then that's BS. Or if she was sick and you go out and you see her, thats BS. But sometimes, let things go, PEOPLE do LIVE. Stop stalking everybody all the time. You aren't her father, so don't try to be.