More Principles
I love this post because of the amount of people who are looking beyond this PU aspect of his life. This guy is living a happy life, I can assure you that. Eventually this guy will not be homeless and he will no longer be in NY, but for the time being I'll try and pick his brain.
Last time I was convinced that he had game, yesterday when I hung with him for about 15mins I was fully convinced just by the stuff that he was talking about. It's so similar to PU stuff out there some have many twists and his mindset is different.
A few observations that I had...
- He is VERY social, he talks to EVERYONE
- He knows how to verbally talk. He has a way with words and knows how to set up meaning behind those words.
- He understands that there is a skill to this
- He really doesn't care if he gets the girl or not
- He always leads the conversation and it has a purpose.
- His game has a lot to do with building a chick's curiousity
While I was hanging with him, he pointed out the cop that he # closed. He used to say a few comments every time she was stationed at that store then he went for her #. He called up a chick who he wanted me to talk to, he said she knows how smooth he is because she is a smooth girl herself. Her answering machine picked up though...She had a sexy voice...
Also he stopped a group of about 5 people, got them to give money to the homeless organization. Then they stood there for about 5mins as he got there e-mail, gave his #, and day2 to go to church with them. He has a specific mission to do which I won't talk about...it really clicked in my head as to why he's out here and why he does what he does.
Now for the stuff that I extracted from our conversation
A. Give her Eargasms - Learn talk so good that there is subtle sexual undertone going on throughout the conversation.
B. Build Curiosity, Anticipation, and Suspense - This gets chicks...he gave me an example of this which was really money. I'd kind of call it his "Freak Routine" because he stated he does this to find out how sexual she is at the moment. The gist of it is..."I wanted to tell you something...na forget it..I wanted to show you my dik." (It doesn't go exactly like that because I don't remember exactly what was said) His way of using this is VERY VERY good. I unconsciously do some of this stuff, but not this his extent.
C. Calibrate - All chicks are different calibrate. He stressed this a lot and stated that all chicks have a rule, and if you can get passed that rule or meet that requirement then you'll get laid.
D. Flow - Don't worry about words, what's more important is how you say it. You can say the same thing in so many different ways with so many different meanings.
E. Life Experiences - Use both your good and bad experiences when telling stories.
F. Don't be Anxious - Even if you want to fuk her badly, you can't be all anxious wanting to get her. He pointed out that one of my wing's does that a lot when approaching.
G. Slide in and shoot missiles - He referred to drumline, the part where they were talking sexual about the drums and the main character. He stated with throwing certain verbal and non-verbal things through the backdoor. Almost as if he uses his words to keep her engaged, meanwhile he is shooting missiles.
H. Escalate FAST...But make it seem like your going slow - This was sort of like push/pull. He was doing all sorts of things and then disqualifying himself or saying we should slow down, or he's not ready, there just friends, etc. He gave examples which I forgot, but it was REAL good. In the chick's eyes it seems like he's escalating slowly but really he is escalating fast.
Note: I asked him how long it takes him to pull and is stated his slow game takes awhile because he says a few comments every time he see's them. If he sees them again he sees them if he don't "Who cares". He was fully content with giving value and not getting anything in return. To him he thought of it as him make her day better anyway. As for his fast game he says it takes about 6 hours avverage for him to pull in a public place.
I. Women LOVE Sex - There ready to **** as he says. He says women like it way more than...He then went into a story about a 10 hour sex session that he had. Every rest his chick would just give him head, eventually he had to tell her "No more" because he couldn't even cvm anymore and he was sore lol.
J. Stand out - He talked about approaching different than all the guys. When he talks about getting to know a chick he was saying rather different questions. His motto was "How many guys ask a chick what her favorite color is? It's the little things guys think is BS that counts."
K. LISTEN - You have to learn to fully listen to a chick, you can see a lot going on.
L. 100% unaffected - You can't care about what happens, just do it. To learn the game you have to play the game. Overall you have to LIVE the game.