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Yoko Kurama

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I know why I am always tripping over my self when I talk to women. I think TOO much. Even when I am not around them I shouldn't think about em'! Because if I do think about them beforehand when I am talking to them I tend to think about what I was thinking about beforehand which distracts me and cause me to THINK and ACT in stupid ways! I am following my instincts when it comes to women, from here on out. Pure, instant, non-contemplated reactions.
 

Triple T

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Yoko Kurama said:
I know why I am always tripping over my self when I talk to women. I think TOO much. Even when I am not around them I shouldn't think about em'! Because if I do think about them beforehand when I am talking to them I tend to think about what I was thinking about beforehand which distracts me and cause me to THINK and ACT in stupid ways! I am following my instincts when it comes to women, from here on out. Pure, instant, non-contemplated reactions.
Good on you. :up:

Rest of you guys that think too much should listen to this guy. Don't think (too much) about what your going to do, just do it. Some of my highest moments of my DJ career was when I was so pumped I didn't care what was coming out of my mouth, I just said whatever came to my mind right away and it UPed my game ALOT!

Don't think too much, just act. Or else you'll psyche yourself out.
 

Void

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exactly
 

Furnezz

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Agreed. My most AFC moments usually come/used to come when I'd plan a conversation or situation beforehand; then when soemthing changes I'd be too busy figuring out what I was supposed to do next then I'd start kinda panicing or getting anxious.

In other words, you're right.
 

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your 1000% correct. its my main problem too, and i still have trouble dealing with it sometimes. but im gettin better at it. good job uve realized, u dont kno how hard that step is for most ppl.
 
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