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Hobbies as DHVs

Lotus Effect

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Few hobbies will actually get you laid as a result of doing the hobby itself.
Is it safe to guess that you have never surfed, right?

(Same applies to dirt biking, and street skateboarding)
 

zekko

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Yeah those hobbies are great if you enjoy them, but the problem comes when a guy does something to impress women
I agree these things shouldn't be done to impress women, they should be done organically because they are interesting to you. Impressing women is just a happy coincidence. I guess if someone is looking to woo women, that doesn't help too much. Other than that maybe if you see a leadership void, perhaps you can fill it?
 

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Few hobbies will actually get you laid as a result of doing the hobby itself. Much of the more active hobbies that @Lotus Effect mentions are sausage fests. The geeky/nerdy DLV hobbies that @Lotus Effect mentions are more likely to get you disqualified than any of the action hobbies will help.

The one thing that the action hobbies can do for you is that they can help with your physique. Looks are the #1 factor in seduction.
Being a house Club DJ will...but it wasn't a hobby to me it was full time job and I fvcking loved it...it honestly became a lifestyle.

Spending your days at the record store on Tuesday(Imports) and Thursday(Domestic) to try and snag any gems that might be there before a competing DJ does, then practicing your craft, working on new mix CD demos to send out for potential bookings in other cities, etc.

Hanging out at clubs with other DJs on their nights when you aren't working building your network, then working 2-3 nights a week. Rinse and repeat.

Seems like a lifetime ago but it was the best 10 years of my life.

The women came with it but that had zero to do with me getting involved with it.
 
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