Hobbies and Ways to Naturally Meet Girls? Dancing?

[Mike32ct]

So you are saying Tango dancing lessons would be better for that type of interactions? Found some Tango dance lessons in my local area. It is intense in body to body contact and trust (neither partner would accidentally drop each other putting into a vulnerable position) is also involved.

In theory yes; that’s all true. But it requires talent and a passion for it. That’s why I don’t recommend dance as a casual hobby unless you really think you could get good at it.

I lacked the natural talent at dance and spun my wheels no matter how hard I tried. Anyway, the dance discussion has run its course, so I’ll stop there.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Games. I’m a gamer geek nerd. I’ve found game conventions, social circle & gamestores very productive.
By ‘games’ I mean Tabletop, RPGs & CCGs.

Hiking groups good too.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

If it doesn't cost you much time and money, try the dancing, even if you think you won't like it.

IME it's easy to get attached to a version of myself that's not 100% real. Sometimes I find I like things I thought I hated.

However I also don't put much pressure on having to meet women - they are there and I'll have fun regardless. So if you find you enjoy dancing it will simply open up new pathways to enjoyment (e.g. you'll go out more and do this). If not, you'll have defenestrated and learned something new. Win win.

Flip side is no need to force anything you're really not into. Just keep in mind tastes and identities are not fixed.

 

[rber]

@SW15 Interesting. Israel definitely shares the same patterns.

@Hamurabimbi Do you get to hang out with gamer girls directly in game conventions and gaming social circles? If so, are any of them attractive? How would you go about finding and joining one as an outsider?

@Millard Fillmore Good point, I'll definitely consider it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

@Hamurabimbi Do you get to hang out with gamer girls directly in game conventions and gaming social circles? If so, are any of them attractive? How would you go about finding and joining one as an outsider?

Sure.
If you want to and they want you to.

Yes.

Many game stores have message boards as well as open gaming nights.
Many cities have game conventions held at hotels for 3-4 days.
Getting into a SS is like any other SS.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Sure.
If you want to and they want you to.

Yes.

Many game stores have message boards as well as open gaming nights.
Many cities have game conventions held at hotels for 3-4 days.
Getting into a SS is like any other SS.

I forgot to mention. I lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a youngin.

 

[Scaramouche]

I forgot to mention. I lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a youngin.

Hi Hamurabimbi,
What was the game?...Catch me if you can?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Hi Hamurabimbi,
What was the game?...Catch me if you can?

While my friends were playing Dungeons & Dragons in open gaming downstairs. My purple helmeted warrior was exploring her dark, wet tunnel.

 

[The Diver]

Yes, you said you don't have any interest in dancing, and this is a shame because if you are a good-looking man who is a good dancer, you'll slay it.
You start with dance lessons, and when you are skilled enough, you use your new skill on the dance floor at a dance party/Live music dance event around your city/town, where women are desperate for a good dance partner. And from there it's easy; Kino is there from the get-go; flirting and making connections is a walk in the park.
Really, it's a no-brainer.