Hitting The Gym Today - Gonna Approach

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I'm going to try to meet hbs at the gym today and give a full field report of my approachs. That is the most socially acceptable place to meet hbs yes?

I never approach anyone though usually when im there. One time I had like 320 pounds on the bench and I decide it's a good idea to ask the 5'4" thin HB to spot me. And she says ok (hesistantly because she didn't think she was strong enough to spot me), after she is done spotting me she just leaves, I don't ask for the number.

I'm out of ideas.

Please give me some suggestions and I will try them today and post back my field report.

Tell me what to do and I will do it.

Theres lots of fit attractive HB8+s at the gym.
 

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Is this where I'm supposed to be like "NO, GPSHIELDS, DONT TO IT!!!" and it becomes some 10-page trolling thread??

Good luck with that.
 

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You can approach a woman damn near anywhere. Not just the gym. I don't approach women at the gyms here in Atlanta.

AFAIC, just make a move. Just do it like Nike!

Case dismissed.
 

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Broham, don't go inviting little 100 pound chicks to help you spot heavy weight. Not only could you get hurt, but they will assume you are trying to show off. It's hard to meet at the gym. Most people are there following a workout routine. They go in, get their work done, and get out. Aside from meatheads, not many people actually ENJOY working out. People do it to stay in shape. I enjoy a good hard work out just like a lot of people on here probably do, but if there were some magic pill that would reduce body fat and build muscle you better believe I wouldn't be in the gym the same amount of time I already am. I could spend that time on more important things.

I have met two girls in the gym. One was next to me on the treadmill. I dropped my ipod while I was running. She was walking and got off and gave it back to me. This wasn't intentional, just dumb luck. I always try and get next to the hottest women on the treadmill just in case something like that happens.

The second one was getting water. This is probably the best place to try and pick them up. They are usually alone, in between sets (1-2 minutes), and away from the crowd. I just chatted the chick up about wearing jewelry while working out, calling it a safety hazzard. Something stupid like that (it was just the first thing I could think of). You may also want to think about joining yoga classes or something that your gym has. This is probably the best way to go about things (although I've never done it). I've heard great things about that.

I would generally stay away from sarging at the gym though, just me.
 

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Dont put so much pressure on yourself, you'll probably just come off awkward. just have a fun, light-hearted demeanor. I notice that when I have a good workout going I feel a big confidence boost. Take advantage of it and have fun
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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I agree with ss666, I wouldn't ask a chick to spot me on ANYthing, especially a bench press with anything over 200 lbs. Uess shes the only other person in the gym with me, in which case I'd probably just choose to go lighter weight or use dumb bells. 1) you can get hurt, 2) I don't trust a woman to kno how to spot properly, hurting my workout, 3) it could come off as a lame way of showing off if she was at all aware that you were gaming her
 

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incognito42 said:
I agree with ss666, I wouldn't ask a chick to spot me on ANYthing, especially a bench press with anything over 200 lbs. Uess shes the only other person in the gym with me, in which case I'd probably just choose to go lighter weight or use dumb bells. 1) you can get hurt, 2) I don't trust a woman to kno how to spot properly, hurting my workout, 3) it could come off as a lame way of showing off if she was at all aware that you were gaming her

Do you have any openers for gym?

I will say verbatim what you tell me to.

Thanks.
 

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i dont even think of hitting on chicks at the gym, your supose to work out, do it outside the gym. but thats just me..
 

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I just couldn't interrupt what a girl is doing just to talk to her. It would have to be a lucky moment of walking out together or going to the water fountain together
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
You guys on here keep feeding these trolls like it's Thanksgiving dinner.
If you don't like my thread don;t post in it.

How is this a troll thread?

I asked what are some openers for the gym and strategy.
 

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Jair213 said:
i dont even think of hitting on chicks at the gym, your supose to work out, do it outside the gym. but thats just me..
i think of it all the time. them there with their thick legs and fat rear ends in leggings and a tight sports bra with sweat glistening off them. S#hit why not? You can say that about any location.
 

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gspshields2 said:
I'm going to try to meet hbs at the gym today and give a full field report of my approachs. That is the most socially acceptable place to meet hbs yes?

I never approach anyone though usually when im there. One time I had like 320 pounds on the bench and I decide it's a good idea to ask the 5'4" thin HB to spot me. And she says ok (hesistantly because she didn't think she was strong enough to spot me), after she is done spotting me she just leaves, I don't ask for the number.

I'm out of ideas.

Please give me some suggestions and I will try them today and post back my field report.

Tell me what to do and I will do it.

Theres lots of fit attractive HB8+s at the gym.
Based off your posts on So Suave your approaches/ creeper status would be a marvel to behold.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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gspshields2 said:
Do you have any openers for gym?

I will say verbatim what you tell me to.

Thanks.
I'm not a dj and I don't want to give you bad advice. I'd just say pick your spots and don't be intrusive when a chick is zoned into her workOut. Have an upbeat, light-hearted and friendly attitude. Maybe try an opener based on something going on around you. I mean you are in the gym with lots of shyt goin on. Maybe you comment on a machine you see them on, and ask how they like using it because you used to use it but didn't like it too much. Or every once in a while if I see a chick really working out hard ill say "youre really getting after it, like a champ!" I love seeing fat people and women working out hard, it gives me motivation

I usually like keepin to myself and not being bothered in there. I get in my zone, criddle out a little bit and check out the hotties, and get out.
 

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incognito42 said:
I'm not a dj and I don't want to give you bad advice. I'd just say pick your spots and don't be intrusive when a chick is zoned into her workOut. Have an upbeat, light-hearted and friendly attitude. Maybe try an opener based on something going on around you. I mean you are in the gym with lots of shyt goin on. Maybe you comment on a machine you see them on, and ask how they like using it because you used to use it but didn't like it too much. Or every once in a while if I see a chick really working out hard ill say "youre really getting after it, like a champ!" I love seeing fat people and women working out hard, it gives me motivation

I usually like keepin to myself and not being bothered in there. I get in my zone, criddle out a little bit and check out the hotties, and get out.

Saying you're not a DJ is a good thing. Reading posts from some of these self proclaimed "DJs" on SS show them to be the basket cases they are.
 

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I dont find the gym as generally a good environment to approach. If you aren't into your workout and there for another reason its usually pretty transparent, and you risk attaining a "creeper" status. I only recommend approaching if a woman there is giving you a pretty clear sign of interest - otherwise go to the gym just to work out.
 

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I went to the gym and it was pretty packed.
I went up to random HBs and started saying, so do you come here often?
Most of them, looked at me and just walked away like I was weird or something.

One HB8 talked to me for a little bit, she says no shes busy with work, and she usually doesn't due free weights, shes more into the yoga. I asked her how much it was for the yoga lessons. She said $150 for 9 weeks. I said wow, thats cool, give me your number and we will talk more. I cut to the chase right away instead of wasting time. She said sorry I have a boyfriend. I said cool and walked away.

I approached a blonde chick HB5 and I asked you "do you think its appriopriate for guys to approach girls at the gym", she said "whats means that". She didn't understand what I was saying and had a thick accent, so I quickly changed the subject to "Where are from".

She said she was from Poland and that she hated the gym because they forced her to sign up for a longer membership and when she asked to cancel her membership they refused. I asked her if it was OK for someone like me to go to Poland, cause I want to watch Eurocup would I get stabbed. She said Yes, dont go there.

I asked her which team she is cheering for and she said Germany. I said, I am cheering for Germany too because I don't like my Italian friends. She thought my poor attempt at humor is funny.

I asked her for number and whether she would like to go out on Friday to a music festival. She agreed and gave me her number. We hugged and said goodbye.
 

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I ll give you my way in approaching women in gym , but in return I want the results from you
first go sit next machine that the woman sit and pretend you dont event noticed she is sitting beside you , and dont go to treatmill or other standing machine
2- after she spend more than 2 mins come directly to her and say in serious accent , how many sets you have remaining here ?
if she respond with friendly gesture move to the next topic and continue talking or else say ok and dont event smile .
the good thing in this approach you are disarming the woman from rejection weapon , she cant reject you and she must reply to you , so you are forcing her to talk with you without possibility of rejecting you .
women who practicing in body building section usually they are there for men , and they welcome the approach even if they pretend they are so busy with their machine .
any woman set the weight to minimum she is most likely there for men

 
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