Hit on a girl in the gym- advice needed

[zorg198]

Hello brothers.

So there is a girl i can't stop thinking about , although i have no problem training and i keep my head up and no distractions but this girl is something else.

I need advice of what to do , i want to approach her but it will be a mistake since she will turn me down it will be all over the place . i want to approach her on Facebook but it will be creepy and i will look like a loser.

So , what to do?

Joe.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Gym game isn't too tough. You gotta arrange the meeting outside of the gym. If she is serious about her workout don't waste her time. Let her get thru the workout. Setup a coffee or lunch date.

 

[zorg198]

I got that. the question is how to do it , how to approach.

 

[bigneil]

Women at the gym are the worst. They strut around flexing and have headphones on half the time. They're surrounded by body builders who they feel are at their disposal. Their whole purpose is to get attention under the guise of physical fitness. And worst of all, sometimes they have some DB hanging out with them, spotting them, and doing the same workout! Don't form gym couples.

 

[\\mattyice//]

Women at the gym are the worst. They strut around flexing and have headphones on half the time. They're surrounded by body builders who they feel are at their disposal. Their whole purpose is to get attention under the guise of physical fitness. And worst of all, sometimes they have some DB hanging out with them, spotting them, and doing the same workout! Don't form gym couples.

Not always, depends on the location and people who workout there. Personally, I go to workout and not waste my time trying to focus on gaming a girl. I do however have a friend who won't workout with headphones and will talk to anyone. He's probably 6"2 and he's pretty skinny, basketball player like build but more scrawny. He will just try to joke around with whatever girl he chooses to and doesn't care if she doesn't even pay attention to him. Most of the time the girl will just joke back but I have seen him be successful. Unfortunately he doesn't put narely as much effort into his workout. You do however have to spot the girls that are between the "FVCK OFF IM HERE TO WORKOUT" and the ones that just want straight attention and are waiting for a guy to stare at them to give them that few seconds of satisfaction.

 

[\\mattyice//]

I got that. the question is how to do it , how to approach.

You have to have a really good personality and be able to joke around and keep it light, none of the "oh your form looks off" BS. Make a funny sarcastic comment about what she is wearing or maybe she "is ALWAYS using the smith machine." If you can think on your toes then you got a chance

 

[bigneil]

Why spend money on a gym only to lift inert pieces of metal up and down? Talk about a waste of time and energy. I've always wanted to hook up a power mill to those machines and get free electricity.

Why not build a wall (stone masons are the strongest men on Earth traditionally) or patio? I do push-ups every day and chin-ups when I can find stairs that allow them, but nowadays they put screens under the stairs.

Don't work out. Work harder.

Also, I've been told women HATE being approached at the gym. If she likes you she will hold eye contact and smile, and not be wearing headphones. When a woman is attracted they will seem to magically start talking to you as if you have known them your whole life.

 

[In2theGame]

Hello brothers.

So there is a girl i can't stop thinking about , although i have no problem training and i keep my head up and no distractions but this girl is something else.

I need advice of what to do , i want to approach her but it will be a mistake since she will turn me down it will be all over the place . i want to approach her on Facebook but it will be creepy and i will look like a loser.

So , what to do?

Joe.

I did it to this girl ive had the hots for and when she went to get some paper towel next to me... i opened up and said hey. When i was going to the lockers i crossed paths with her again and made small chit chat.. Got her phone number and ive been texting a bit here and there. Good news for now is that she's warming up to me so im playing it slow due to the fact that if you fvck up, your bound to run into that girl all the time in the gym and it'll be awkward. Try to make small talk with her when/if you can and feel it out if shes receptive or seems to back off, go from there.
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[bigneil]

Credit where it's due. I never got a phone number at the gym. I once picked up a girl who previously worked at the gym where we met, but that was at a bar, and she wasn't that hot.

 

[foreverAFC]

look at this way, a guy asking for a girls number is not the weirdest thing in the world, girls get asked out all the time, its really not that big of a deal even if you get turned down

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Hello brothers.

So there is a girl i can't stop thinking about , although i have no problem training and i keep my head up and no distractions but this girl is something else.

You sound like thirsty looser,even if you get her you loose her with such pvssy mindset.its