Hunterchilla
Don Juan
So I just typed this really long essay on here, and then some how it didnt get uploaded and it was deleted. Anyway Ill try to type this as quick as possible again.
Month 1 ; gets phone number we go out on several dates, 1 week into our dating we have sex. She starts sleeping over. Sex about 2-4 times a week.
she ends her relationship with her long term ex-boyfriend. Over the internet (I see this with out her knowing) I ask her to be my girlfriend, she turns me down saying that shes not ready for a relationship
2; She continues to sleep over, 2-3 nights a week, I ask her again under romantic settings to be my girlfriend, she turns me down telling me how she just got out of a long term relationship and deosnt want anything serious now. I feel hurt and tell her she can either be with me as a girlfriend or not, not a f-buddy. She says she needs more time.
3; month we fight about her going out to clubs/bars with out, (she only went out 2-3 times) In rebellion I go out to a house party. That night I get head from some blonde girl. Later same night, she picks me up and I feel intensely guilty about what I had just done, but still she did not know. I make myself go with her and her girlfriends to the club. She makes out with a guy infront of me. We have a fight and I dont speak to her for 2-3 days. She crys etc and we make up. When we make up i confess to her that i cheated also, and then she also confesses that this is the second time she made out with the same guy. She explains that she has been in realtionships since 14- consecutively. She just wanted to have fun and be wild. She explains how she cares for me alot and needs more time.
4; shes goes away for a vacation for a week back to her home town, in this period i get extreme one-itis and obess over her missing her like crazy. She comes back and announes to me that she wants to be my girlfriend. We have a great next couple of weeks
5; our sex life has staled having sex 2-3 times a week and her totally not being into it. One night i question her and she mentions in bad wording how shes just not as attracted to me as she should be, she also then mentions how her ex-boyfriend had a longer penis and is thicker then. I break up with her, she balls her eyes out and refuses to break up with me, she crys and deosnt leave my room. So i decide to leave and sleep at my friends. I come back a day later and she is still in the same clothing, puffy eyes from crying etc. We then make up and she tells me how she cares for me, i please her, and that she just said it wrong, and didnt know what she was thinking etc etc
We go out that night, and she blows me 2 two times through out the night, we also have sex 4 times. We never had that much sex in one night, and ive never recieved head from her. Overnight our sex life gets turned up a notch for the better.
6; Our sex life is great for this next month, we are having sex now 2-3 times a day, she now blows me randomely which she never did before. We spend new years eve, and for the first time she mentions (as tears start coming down her eyes) how she loves me. I tear also and we both confess we love each other for the first time. 2 weeks later or so i sneak onto her facebook and find that her past relationship they were planning on having kids and getting married together etc. I also see that she was flirting with guys on facebook 3 months into our relationship. Her excuse was she "we were still unofficial".
7: months in our relationship sex is beginning to drone off. We have sex maybe 2-3 times a week again, however we live with each other now and we literally spend 24/7 with each other. Towards the end of the month she withholds sex from me for a week and a half also being unaffectionate etc. I ask her about this and finally get an answer; her ex-boyfriend just got into a relationship, she is sad, nostalgic etc. We talk and she says how shes planning on not staying with me for the summer and going back to her hometown. I ask her if she will get backtogether with her ex-bf , and she says she might. She tells me how shes still in love with him etc and how she cares for me but just cares so much for her ex etc. We break up for the night. Next day we get back together, she menitons how shes in love with me, and the reason she thoguht about going back with him and breaking it off with me is just she was shocked, and sad, that her ex moved on etc and she made a stupid decision.
8; Here we are now, we have 2-3 times a week, very passionless sex, we spend all day together are very affectionate but when it comes to sex its ****ty. She continouesly pushes me off and says shes not in the mood, but sometimes puts effort to please me by dressing up, and then giving me great BJ's, however she deosnt let me do stuff to her when I want to. Our sex is kinda weening. I confronted her about it today and she said that 2-3 times a week is not bad for a couple and that im stressing about it when i shouldnt. Its just that our sex life is becoming bland and monantenous, never spontaneous and exciting. We have sex and its like are you in the mood? yes or no? and if yes we have plain boring sex till i ***, and then its over.
In this synopsis is seems as if we are a couple who fight alot and all that matters to me is the sex. It isnt, we spend 24/7 with each other being a college couple that is wierd. She sleeps in my dorm room 24/7 she has moved her stuff in etc. We share alot of romantic moments, she has had me over for christmas, her family loves me, she buys me gifts etc etc etc the list goes on, but the real drama of our relationship is above. Please give me a good analysis of what you think about it ,and about the sex. I would appreciate thanks.
Month 1 ; gets phone number we go out on several dates, 1 week into our dating we have sex. She starts sleeping over. Sex about 2-4 times a week.
she ends her relationship with her long term ex-boyfriend. Over the internet (I see this with out her knowing) I ask her to be my girlfriend, she turns me down saying that shes not ready for a relationship
2; She continues to sleep over, 2-3 nights a week, I ask her again under romantic settings to be my girlfriend, she turns me down telling me how she just got out of a long term relationship and deosnt want anything serious now. I feel hurt and tell her she can either be with me as a girlfriend or not, not a f-buddy. She says she needs more time.
3; month we fight about her going out to clubs/bars with out, (she only went out 2-3 times) In rebellion I go out to a house party. That night I get head from some blonde girl. Later same night, she picks me up and I feel intensely guilty about what I had just done, but still she did not know. I make myself go with her and her girlfriends to the club. She makes out with a guy infront of me. We have a fight and I dont speak to her for 2-3 days. She crys etc and we make up. When we make up i confess to her that i cheated also, and then she also confesses that this is the second time she made out with the same guy. She explains that she has been in realtionships since 14- consecutively. She just wanted to have fun and be wild. She explains how she cares for me alot and needs more time.
4; shes goes away for a vacation for a week back to her home town, in this period i get extreme one-itis and obess over her missing her like crazy. She comes back and announes to me that she wants to be my girlfriend. We have a great next couple of weeks
5; our sex life has staled having sex 2-3 times a week and her totally not being into it. One night i question her and she mentions in bad wording how shes just not as attracted to me as she should be, she also then mentions how her ex-boyfriend had a longer penis and is thicker then. I break up with her, she balls her eyes out and refuses to break up with me, she crys and deosnt leave my room. So i decide to leave and sleep at my friends. I come back a day later and she is still in the same clothing, puffy eyes from crying etc. We then make up and she tells me how she cares for me, i please her, and that she just said it wrong, and didnt know what she was thinking etc etc
We go out that night, and she blows me 2 two times through out the night, we also have sex 4 times. We never had that much sex in one night, and ive never recieved head from her. Overnight our sex life gets turned up a notch for the better.
6; Our sex life is great for this next month, we are having sex now 2-3 times a day, she now blows me randomely which she never did before. We spend new years eve, and for the first time she mentions (as tears start coming down her eyes) how she loves me. I tear also and we both confess we love each other for the first time. 2 weeks later or so i sneak onto her facebook and find that her past relationship they were planning on having kids and getting married together etc. I also see that she was flirting with guys on facebook 3 months into our relationship. Her excuse was she "we were still unofficial".
7: months in our relationship sex is beginning to drone off. We have sex maybe 2-3 times a week again, however we live with each other now and we literally spend 24/7 with each other. Towards the end of the month she withholds sex from me for a week and a half also being unaffectionate etc. I ask her about this and finally get an answer; her ex-boyfriend just got into a relationship, she is sad, nostalgic etc. We talk and she says how shes planning on not staying with me for the summer and going back to her hometown. I ask her if she will get backtogether with her ex-bf , and she says she might. She tells me how shes still in love with him etc and how she cares for me but just cares so much for her ex etc. We break up for the night. Next day we get back together, she menitons how shes in love with me, and the reason she thoguht about going back with him and breaking it off with me is just she was shocked, and sad, that her ex moved on etc and she made a stupid decision.
8; Here we are now, we have 2-3 times a week, very passionless sex, we spend all day together are very affectionate but when it comes to sex its ****ty. She continouesly pushes me off and says shes not in the mood, but sometimes puts effort to please me by dressing up, and then giving me great BJ's, however she deosnt let me do stuff to her when I want to. Our sex is kinda weening. I confronted her about it today and she said that 2-3 times a week is not bad for a couple and that im stressing about it when i shouldnt. Its just that our sex life is becoming bland and monantenous, never spontaneous and exciting. We have sex and its like are you in the mood? yes or no? and if yes we have plain boring sex till i ***, and then its over.
In this synopsis is seems as if we are a couple who fight alot and all that matters to me is the sex. It isnt, we spend 24/7 with each other being a college couple that is wierd. She sleeps in my dorm room 24/7 she has moved her stuff in etc. We share alot of romantic moments, she has had me over for christmas, her family loves me, she buys me gifts etc etc etc the list goes on, but the real drama of our relationship is above. Please give me a good analysis of what you think about it ,and about the sex. I would appreciate thanks.
