Hiking Date, anyone actually done this?

[MtnMan]

I live in a place where there is tons of great hiking, and a lot of people are into it.

I went out and got beers with this girl last week (1st date), we had a good time, walked her to her car, hugged and kiss closed. I am definitely interested, the kiss was decent, but not a makeout by any means.

I waited a few days and called her, she got back to me in half an hour, we chatted and tentatively planned a hiking date for this coming weekend. This girl is very outdoorsy, camps a lot, kayaks etc.

Anyways, I'm not really sure how I am going to be able to work in kino and escalation on a hiking date....? I have hiked with girls before, but only after I banged them. I feel like on the second date, escalation is KEY!

Any ideas how to work this? At the top, there is obviously some chance for kino, but I don't know. Usually I have second dates over dinner at my place or beers somewhere that facilitates kino and banging after.

I am hoping to be able to arrange a hike near my place and then cook food at my place after. But how to escalate on the hike, this is the question. Its not exactly a relaxing sexy affair to be climbing up a mountain.

 

[Partizan]

I am a big hiker and hiking dates are a key part of my arsenal. I usually use it either on a second date or after we've already had sex. Not on a third or fourth date where I usually go in for sex at the end of the night. Make sure you know the trail. You'll look like a chump if you get lost or don't know where you're going.

PROS:
-Since I'm a big hiker, I get to impress her by dropping knowledge along the way and having good gear.
-Always bring a first aid kit. If she gets a blister or twists an ankle, you come to her rescue. Major points here.
-Chicks almost always enjoy themselves. Make her pack some sandwiches and sit down someplace along the way to have a "picnic". Someplace that has a good view or in front of water.

CONS:
-Not much opportunity for kino unless you're holding her hand to get though some tough terrain.
-You're both pretty sweaty and nasty at the end of it, so she's usually is in no mood to make out until she cleans up.
-There's not much else to do while hiking except talk. Gotta make sure you have topics to discuss.

 

[MtnMan]

Cool, thanks for the reply!

This girl is pretty avid about the outdoors, I'm sure her gear is better than mine. However, I am a beast hiker, I just don't have all the fancy stuff. I know the trails around my place like the back of my hand.

There are a couple really nice swimming holes nearby, so a quick dip in the river after might be possible.

I am mostly stressed about the lack of kino opportunities, luckily I have already kissed her, but I feel like you still need to build it back up to it after not seeing each other for many days.

If I can get her to come to my territory, play in my swimming holes and cook dinner with me at my place, I think I will be fine. However, we were both booked up this weekend, so the second date will be almost 2 weeks after the first.....MAJOR flake potential.

 

[El Payaso]

Cool, thanks for the reply!

This girl is pretty avid about the outdoors, I'm sure her gear is better than mine. However, I am a beast hiker, I just don't have all the fancy stuff. I know the trails around my place like the back of my hand.

There are a couple really nice swimming holes nearby, so a quick dip in the river after might be possible.

I am mostly stressed about the lack of kino opportunities, luckily I have already kissed her, but I feel like you still need to build it back up to it after not seeing each other for many days.

If I can get her to come to my territory, play in my swimming holes and cook dinner with me at my place, I think I will be fine. However, we were both booked up this weekend, so the second date will be almost 2 weeks after the first.....MAJOR flake potential.

If you have already kissed her then there's nothing to worry about. The key is just to make it look normal. If you're nervous, she'll be able to tell and will get awkward herself. But if you're confident, she'll feel comfortable. When you see her just hug her or give her a light kiss on the cheek. You can hold her hand when walking, you can make excuses to touch her by saying there's something on her face, move in close, look her confidently in the eyes and brush off the imaginary object then go in for the kiss. Hell, you can just grab her randomly at any point and make out with her. Make sure you pull away suddenly and continue walking like it was nothing. Her mind will go into overdrive and she will instantly get wet for you. Push and pull, tease her throughout the date and by the end of it, she'll literally be on her knees begging you to fvck her silly.

 

[MtnMan]

If you have already kissed her then there's nothing to worry about. The key is just to make it look normal. If you're nervous, she'll be able to tell and will get awkward herself. But if you're confident, she'll feel comfortable. When you see her just hug her or give her a light kiss on the cheek. You can hold her hand when walking, you can make excuses to touch her by saying there's something on her face, move in close, look her confidently in the eyes and brush off the imaginary object then go in for the kiss. Hell, you can just grab her randomly at any point and make out with her. Make sure you pull away suddenly and continue walking like it was nothing. Her mind will go into overdrive and she will instantly get wet for you. Push and pull, tease her throughout the date and by the end of it, she'll literally be on her knees begging you to fvck her silly.

thanks man, great way to put it in prospective. I have gotten 1000 times better at dating/escalating since becoming single, but I was always out on the town with the girl pre-sex. Obviously I just translate what I have been doing to this arena. Duh!

Now that I have posted up a specific post about this girl, I am guaranteed a flake. hah!

I'm sure this won't be the last hiking date I go on.

 

[El Payaso]

Obviously I just translate what I have been doing to this arena. Duh!

Exactly.

 

[jimjam]

I went hiking with a girl that was into hiking and reading as well. Sounds corny, but we brought with us a thermos of tea and a book of Raymond Carver Stories. We stopped along the way and read to each other our favorite stories while drinking tea. It was a great opportunity for laughter and kino. I wound up banging the girl. Not that night though we did make out in the woods.

Good luck

 

[MtnMan]

cool! Well, I hope it works out, this girl is a cutie.

 

[The_411]

Hiking dates are great and I'd argue they work best as first dates because there's an end and they allow you to converse. You have ample kino opportunities.

The cons are that you will likely need a venue change to f-close. The other con is that if things go poorly you're stuck hiking with lots of awkwardness.

 

[Huffman]

I went hiking with a girl that was into hiking and reading as well. Sounds corny

Not at all man. Life is not the movies - a lot of people actually enjoy normal things and have fun Books and nerd girls can be awesome! Nothing is ever awkward if you enjoy it.

 

[MOTU]

I have done this:
- find a scenic spot. Stop to admire the view. Stand behind her, kino to your hearts content.
- sit together on a footbridge overlooking a creek or something. Kino away.
- stop in the middle of the trail. Gently grab her hair, pull her in for a kiss. Tell her you just couldn't resist.
- when you get home, suggest a shower... Together.

Just a thought: she'll be more impressed with your sexual attraction then she will your hiking abilities. Don't try to make the pace too fast or do show off how tough you are. Don't make her work hard to keep up with you. Keep everything light and relaxed.

 

[Joshski]

I actually just went on a hiking date a couple months ago. I can see the negatives--it can be tiring, you'll probably get a little sweaty, and there could be other people hiking. That made it a little less comfortable b/c we didn't want to make out in front of everyone haha.

But the date overall was great, you will have tons of opportunity to talk and get some kino in. MOTU gave some solid advice in the post above me. On my date, we went to a castle and went all the way to the top and just stayed there for a while. Be confident and have fun.

 

[MtnMan]

great advice dudes, glad I started this thread. The hike I am thinking of is close to my house, up a 4000 foot mountain, and the trail is pretty sparsely used, so there isn't many people. A couple nice bridges over streams, several nice lookouts.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Skinny dipping!!! It's a slam dunk!

 

[Zarky]

I say don't hike till after you f*ck. In fact, before you've f*cked her, don't do anything other than dates that will likely get her into bed.

Can't imagine going out with some chick for weeks and then finding out that she's f*cking terrible in bed.

 

[GotED?]

My current Spainiard girlfriend did a 10hr, 17mile hike together with me in a group setting on our first date. It was also the time when she (now her self disclosure after we are a couple) started to fall in love with me.

I would say it is excellent for a date IF the woman is already very into you from the beginning with very high interest. As some say, you are STUCK with someone for a God Unforgiven amount of time.

If there is chemistry, that long hours of dedicated attention is God Given, if no chemistry, it is God Unforgiven misery.

We also never done 17 mile hike before, so me and her accomplished something 'impossible' in each of us together so it created somewhat of a bond in beating a goal as a couple.

Good luck.

Exodus

 

[chath]

dude you need to take her to see waterfalls and ****

 

[MtnMan]

Figured I would update this:
I chose a hike right near my place, invited girl over yesterday morning. I had strategically baked up one of my home raised chickens and shredded the meat into the crock pot and started a batch of delicious chicken chilli. (this girl is super into eating well/growing your own food). When she arrived I was just finishing getting the chilli ready.

She arrived, showed her around my property and house, and went hiking. The weather wasn't great, it was cloudy with rain showers and chilly. Not exactly good swimming hole weather, and no views from the top.

Convo flowed real well the whole time, some kino on hike (however I felt like it could have been better). Got back to my place, put on dry clothes, the chilli was strategically smelling great and ready to eat. She agreed to stay to eat chilli and we settled into a netflix/food/makeout session.

I definately could have pushed it further, but I didn't go for the bang. Not sure why, but I just wasn't feeling like I could lay down a proper one. I banged my regular the day before, plus the hike and my drive to bang was pretty low. Strange.

She lingered for a LONG time even though she had to work at 5am. We stargazed for a while, made out some more. She was into it, hopefully I didn't scare her off by not going for the bang. Its strange to pass up sex because I know I can get it when I need it. I guess, in a way, its a good thing.

 

[MtnMan]

I agree, its harder to kino on the hike, but its possible. did you miss the part where i brought her back to my house and fooled around for several hours? I wouldn't have done the hiking date if I had not kissed her on the first date.