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xX tha one Xx

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hey players, i've never posted here before, so I'd like to thank you guys for turning my life with girls around...you guys are awesome :D

anway, on to my question...a lot of times when I'm out with friends i'll start talking to chicks and get their numbers, and they seem to really be diggin me. but when i call a few days later to set up a date or something, they seem really aloof and not nearly as interested. i pretty much go by WUWD's 3 principles of attraction...C + F, kino, and get away, and it works great for me...until i call :confused: so i'm just kinda confused about what causes these chicks to flake out so suddenly on me. i do use a LOT of C + F though, and i always joke around about going out with other girlfriends and stuff...so have you guys ever had any problems with using too much C + F? thanks yall
 

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There's a chance you're waiting too long to call. you'd have to make one hell of an impression for a girl to remember you/want to date you four or five days later.
 

xX tha one Xx

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i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
 

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Personally I tihnk the first call doesnt matter.

Call her after a day or two. Then after that ONCE a week for the first motnh for dates.

Read the DJ Bible. great info there.
 

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Originally posted by xX tha one Xx
i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
Thats assuming you can make a good impression and really leave her wanting you.

Until you really iron out your skills, wait 2-3 days for the initial call, if anything. You could technicly call the next day if you wanted to; the initial call doesnt matter so much as the date you make does.
 

xX tha one Xx

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yeah, I think I am waiting too long to call, next time I'll only wait 1 or 2 days to call...thanks for all the input guys ;)
 
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