Correct, but there is no shame in getting into the top 5 or higher.
It's not how you broke up nor why you broke up, it's the overall effect you had on her, and possibly the effect you continue to have on her.
Could you elaborate on this part if you get a sec?
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Love how analytical you are with these concepts. That post makes sense to me re: when you're with someone/ have them as a plate.
She added me on Facebook about a week after my marriage ended. She ran into my cousin and he told her about it. She's initiated hang outs on and off over the last five years. During those hang outs, I've been treating her like I treat every other woman I date: Teasing her and using kino. That just led to her initiating more hang outs. The only thing I didn't do was close the deal because I don't want her fvcked up 5hit back in my life. She gets mad and cuts contact with me every time I end up in a relationship. After it ends, she contacts me again and the circle repeats itself. Women do not learn any lessons about a particular guy when their interest in him is sky rocket high.
if shes still bugging you like that after so many relationships shes interested. That bs about how mean you are sounds like bait where she wants you to go, no babeeee i have changed!!!!!! A **** test, and it sounds like u passed. I've had Agreed and amplified and then told her to come visit the mean dictator for a movie
Haha well can't pull that one now. I talked to her some more today, what I did is still on her mind. My theory is that it's because she's used to her (the woman) having the power and control and I flipped the script on her like a shock.
The bad ones count as well! A girl needs to ride a roller coaster, and so long as there is balance between ups and downs they help you.
tough tbh. she doesnt need to stalk you if shes with you as much
Her Facebook isn't the end-all be-all. All I did here was get a good idea of what her high score list may look like. Unless you're compiling data from the time she started taking notice of boys, you're not going to get a complete picture. The list will be quite lengthy with crushes, celebrities, and other guys she dated and/or fvcked.
This isn't about logging into her facebook to verify where you're sitting in her high score list. You don't need to do that. I just used her facebook account to gather data to help prove something I've suspected for a long time.
That's certainly one way of telling. I don't think there's a test you can do - at least none that I've thought about. However, if her ability to date other guys is all fvcked up after you've broken up, it's likely that you're at the top. She might not date other guys for a long time, she might turn "lesbian", or she may never date again and become a cat lady.
I highly believe it does. As a woman's dating mileage gets higher, she gets more desensitized to the newness and the excitement of dating new men. She cannot recapture those feelings that she experienced in her younger years. Those feelings are going to be closely related to the man (or men in some cases) who gave her the strongest emotions.
I don't believe that at all, unless she was sexually abused or raped at a young age. They won't care about the exes who give them very little emotional fluctuation, which is most men who show her attention. The ones who get their emotions bouncing around are the ones who enter the high score list.
