High School dating and sexual activities

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Hello all. After much searching I have found little to no threads for manual pleasure, fellatio, etc., although there are outstanding topics on Sex, foreplay, and things of the sort in the DJ bible.

That being said, I have decided to start this thread on such activites for us in high shool, whether we ourselves be new to the wide world of sexual activity, or be it our female counterparts. The ultimate goal is to create a pseudo wikipedia style (collective, shared knowledge) resource for highschoolers and our escapades in sexual activity that isn't actual intercourse, as the DJBible can be referred to for that (anything from kissing, to hand job/fingering, to oral sex).

Share your relevant thoughts, tips, questions, do's, dont's, or even just a story you want to tell.



Regards,
~Willy



Note: If you can not say words like "penis" or "sex" with out giggling like a little school boy, don't post here. Serious discussion only.
 

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Ok here is a quick tip for almost any occasion.

When you are holding or touching her in anyway(her hand, arm, thigh, stomach ect.) don't just leave you fingers lying there like dead, limp worms! As you talk to her idley stroke her or rub her, or make little circles on her WHATEVER. It will make her FEEL and that is what fuels these creature we fondly reffer to as women. Plus you can take how she feels and turn her mood in any direction you wish. Wan't her to to get horny? move your hand toward her inner thigh. Want her to get relaxed? Move it to her back and give her a relaxing massage.

This will keep you in the drivers seat because feeling is a ladies true weakness.
 

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Yes many many woman, say that their most erogenous zone is the inner thigh, its a good technique to keep her panties on for a little bit, and put your whole mouth lightly on her ****oral region and to blow warm puffs of air, then slowly and softly work your way to the left thigh about halfway down her thigh will moving slowly kissing and blowing little puffs of warm air, just enough to give her goosebumps, then work back to the center then to the right for a little bit. If your doing it right you wont have to worry about when the "RIGHT" time is, she will definiately let you know when she cant stand it anymore if your doing it right.
 

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True Wolf hit it on the spot. Keeping yourself from being idle, no matter where you are or what you're doing, from walking down the street to making out to in bed, will always help the situation. You have more than one way to touch a girl, so why not use everything available to you? Keep those hands moving, and she won't know what to expect next.
 

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Biting softly on the ear and neck is also vey good. Many girls are sensitive to this. Sometimes I've done this before i have kissed them the first time, esspecialy the ear, beacuse it is real playfull and can be a nice gateway to other things.
 

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Just a quick question. Can you get an STD from fingering a girl?

From what I hear, I've always thought it's possible, but at the same time I've never heard about anyone getting herpes on their hand or anything. If you did get an STD on your hand, what would it be like? Would it even be noticeable?
 

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You could, but that would only be if you had an open cut or sore on your finger, or if you licked your finger or soemthing afterwards. If you wash up you ought to be fine. Or so my health teacher told me.
 

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Thank you for starting a thread about a great amount of knowledge without putting in your own tips.

I'll put in the effort when you do.
 

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Fellatio

Is it just me or why is it that girls always want kiss you after you just got blown? What do you guys do in this situation? By the way, how long are you supposed to last when getting head?
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Thank you for starting a thread about a great amount of knowledge without putting in your own tips.

I'll put in the effort when you do.
Way to be a ****; maybe I'm a busy man, maybe my grandma had just been taken to the hospital, who knows? I do have a life and other things going on around me, and its afully arrogant to assume I'm just shimmying out of something like this. That type of attitude is detrimental in the overall growth of the thread.


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If you are in a relationship, and have just finished receiving a bj kiss your gf. She deserves the attention for her hard work. A buddy of mine refuses to do so until the female brushes her teeth, which is needless to say a turn off. If you ate her out wouldn't it be unfair if she wouldn't kiss you afterward?
 

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I agree with AchillesLastStand, besides, it's not like she just gave some stranger head and wants to spread.

It's really no big deal, unless your like some uber paranoid freak you ought to be just fine.
 

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Originally posted by AchillesLastStand
If you ate her out wouldn't it be unfair if she wouldn't kiss you afterward?
NO.

Men are logical. I don't expect her to get that on her mouth, and if I do it for a girl it's only because I really care about her.

for the record, most guys and many girls feel that giving head to a guy is waaaay different and less disgusting than eating a girl out.
 

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Re: Fellatio

Originally posted by bluelemond
Is it just me or why is it that girls always want kiss you after you just got blown? What do you guys do in this situation? By the way, how long are you supposed to last when getting head?
yeah, i noticed that, but i don't really mind. i usually have no problem at all kissing my girlfriend after she gave me head. i mean, what's the matter? yes her mouth doesn't feel really tasty, but let's not make of it too big of a deal.

do you guys really feel that eating a girl out is more disgusting of getting licked down there?!?! i've always considered dirtier to sùck a ****, since there's the whole cùm thing and stuff... and it usually smells worse than a pùssy...
 

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Re: Re: Fellatio

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and it usually smells worse than a pùssy...
WTF man? That's why there is a thing called "soap and water."

Anyway, some tips:

- Never underestimate the power of a pillow under her butt while you are doing something to her spot.

- While making out with her, don't forget to run your hands along the back of her neck lightly, in her hair, along her sides, and on her lower back

- There is NOTHING wrong wtih a little playful slapping...From her either

- When driving, you don't just have to hold her hand. Rub her stomach, tickle her, play with her hair...Don't just sit there with your hand in hers

- While fingering her, don't just stop because she had an orgasm...Keep going. A lot of girls are capable of having multiples but don't know that because guys stop after they know the girl came (if you were even able to get her off...)

- Sometimes nice, deep, gentle back massages are better than 30 minutes of foreplay

- Never be afraid to experiment with things...Like blindfolds...Or flavored massage lube...

- Never be afraid to use both hands..

- Mix it up

- Say what you want her to do

As far the "kiss her after head" situation, that's more of a personal preference. If you didn't bust in her mouth, no need to worry. If you did, that is up to you as whether you kiss her or turn your cheek until she uses the listerine.
 

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Kissing her after getting head is like being afc. It's like your afraid to say no or that you don't want to make her mad. By avoiding the "kiss after head", then you act more of a challenge or that your disattached from her, so she'll try even harder to win you over.
 

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Just kiss her dude, I mean havent you ever scratched or adjusted your crotch from the inside of your underwear, and I know you have, and maybe forgot a few minutes later and got something to eat, I mean its not that disgusting. If she just blew another guy then IT WOULD BE A WHOLE NEW BALLGAME, but dude if she still has *** in her mouth then no, but if you at least got that out of her mouth, then go ahead and kiss her..

Oh and heres my tip, if a girl refuses to let you *** in her mouth, the next time you eat her out, wait until right as she is coming, then take your toungue off of her, and just finish her off with a finger, then she will know what it feels like to be quit on during the point of no return. 90 percent of girls will let you *** in their mouth next time.
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Just a quick question. Can you get an STD from fingering a girl?

From what I hear, I've always thought it's possible, but at the same time I've never heard about anyone getting herpes on their hand or anything. If you did get an STD on your hand, what would it be like? Would it even be noticeable?
HPV, you bet your ass you can, no condom protects against it, 118 strands of it, 80% of sexually active college girl in the USA have it, enjoy. there is a site on it, forget the link though, its some gross ****, some of it does nothing, some can give rashes like herpes, and some calim to give a greater risk of obtaining cancer
 

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Originally posted by vanwilder
HPV, you bet your ass you can, no condom protects against it, 118 strands of it, 80% of sexually active college girl in the USA have it, enjoy. there is a site on it, forget the link though, its some gross ****, some of it does nothing, some can give rashes like herpes, and some calim to give a greater risk of obtaining cancer

Its might be true, but dude, YOUR SCARING THE SH*T OUT OF ME!!! DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE HER PLEASURE IN RETURN FOR HIV.?

On the falatio question?
Dont be a chump, you know you dont want to kiss her. Dont let a girl tell you want to do. If you dont want to DONT. The MAN wears the PANTS in the RELATIONSHIP, NOT THE WOMAN.
 
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