Well I've kicked almost perfect game to the newest girl on my team and I can tell shes got very high IL(95%+, she offers to buy, talks about me to friends, initiates intimacy, very strong signals and chemisty, good convo, etc). we've been out 4 times in four weeks now and i was only calling her once a week. last time we went out she asked me why i was keeping her waiting and told me i should call her more during the week. she also told me that i was a real mystery in the car before a 45 minute makeout session. i get the impression that this chick just wants to be close to me and maybe i should ease off the challenge a bit and enjoy and induldge myself. possibly crank the challenge up a bit if things change. any ideas on changing the intensity of the game to match her IL? anyways peace and love im out.=P