Mad Banana
Don Juan
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ok I`m on this page since 2002, but got problems with my old account, password and email, anyway I got other issues in me to work on (being Adult Child of Alchocholics) but I`m getting better now and so I havent been asking for advices about specific girls so far, but this one is being too much for me lately, and damn it, I just need a second DJ opinion
to make is as short and essential as I can...:
we`v been dating for some time, but some of our meetings been not dates - I`m also teaching her english (amateur!!), and we both spend some time in front of our computers, so we have contact through things like ICQ comunicator, Skype (talking live) sms in mobile phones, etc - so its kinda different than typical phonecall-date-break...
anyway, at the begining she got high interest, was calling me a lot, sms, accepted all my ideas for meetings, and I could hear in her voice and see in her eyes she`s into me.
2 weeks ago she was in my place, we ended up massaging our bodies, I`v been evrywhere on her body with my hands, but I didn`t want to have sex with her that night (call me a freak!)
naxt day while drunk she told me (on ICQ) she wanted to have mad sex with me last night and that I have something in my touch that she needs, and drives her senses mad. nice.
so I was sure its only matter of time, might I add she is great girl, very interesting, the type I could spend rest of my life with
but a week ago things started do go not so well, first in the club while dancing she started to tell me that I dont have a rythm, I`m tense, etc, and it pissed me off and made me more tense lol
and on next few meetings with her things were well, just a little not smooth, sometimes tense, sometimes just not right - she was quiting smoking cigarets and felt really bad one day, I started massaging her hand, beck and neck and she told me to stop, that shes not in the mood for it, I`v massaged short while longer and stopped
it seems like lately she is not responding to me so good, and perhaps (damn it) sees me more as a friend - I dont know, I have a feeling I`v been trying too hard and made a few mistakes, and she feels like I want it more than she - but I can be wrong
anyway, my gut tells me to stop it for a while, dont initiate any contact, dont arrange any meetings, but I`v actually tried it few weeks ago as well, its a bit difficult as she is used to me being on my computer aviable at certain hours on ICQ, and another problem is I`m giving her english lessons so soon she will probably ask me for next lesson; anyway my gut tells me to slow down for a while, (well if I want to I can not be aviable for her) but my friend (and a part of me as well, lol) advice me to make a move, do something, go for it, be coragous... but maybe its scared afc in me who tries to know how things are fast, for all costs to be sure shes into it or not?
as I said, I never asked for such advice here, but this time I`m really loosing it. I`m ready to forget about her if I will have to not being me, and I wont take **** from her - but perhaps I`m still too soft... damn I just dont know, if you guys please have any ideas, can give me a helpfull hand in this one, give me outside opinion - it would be really appreaciated. If you want to know any important details, ask.
God damn thanks in advance!
to make is as short and essential as I can...:
we`v been dating for some time, but some of our meetings been not dates - I`m also teaching her english (amateur!!), and we both spend some time in front of our computers, so we have contact through things like ICQ comunicator, Skype (talking live) sms in mobile phones, etc - so its kinda different than typical phonecall-date-break...
anyway, at the begining she got high interest, was calling me a lot, sms, accepted all my ideas for meetings, and I could hear in her voice and see in her eyes she`s into me.
2 weeks ago she was in my place, we ended up massaging our bodies, I`v been evrywhere on her body with my hands, but I didn`t want to have sex with her that night (call me a freak!)
naxt day while drunk she told me (on ICQ) she wanted to have mad sex with me last night and that I have something in my touch that she needs, and drives her senses mad. nice.
so I was sure its only matter of time, might I add she is great girl, very interesting, the type I could spend rest of my life with
but a week ago things started do go not so well, first in the club while dancing she started to tell me that I dont have a rythm, I`m tense, etc, and it pissed me off and made me more tense lol
and on next few meetings with her things were well, just a little not smooth, sometimes tense, sometimes just not right - she was quiting smoking cigarets and felt really bad one day, I started massaging her hand, beck and neck and she told me to stop, that shes not in the mood for it, I`v massaged short while longer and stopped
it seems like lately she is not responding to me so good, and perhaps (damn it) sees me more as a friend - I dont know, I have a feeling I`v been trying too hard and made a few mistakes, and she feels like I want it more than she - but I can be wrong
anyway, my gut tells me to stop it for a while, dont initiate any contact, dont arrange any meetings, but I`v actually tried it few weeks ago as well, its a bit difficult as she is used to me being on my computer aviable at certain hours on ICQ, and another problem is I`m giving her english lessons so soon she will probably ask me for next lesson; anyway my gut tells me to slow down for a while, (well if I want to I can not be aviable for her) but my friend (and a part of me as well, lol) advice me to make a move, do something, go for it, be coragous... but maybe its scared afc in me who tries to know how things are fast, for all costs to be sure shes into it or not?
as I said, I never asked for such advice here, but this time I`m really loosing it. I`m ready to forget about her if I will have to not being me, and I wont take **** from her - but perhaps I`m still too soft... damn I just dont know, if you guys please have any ideas, can give me a helpfull hand in this one, give me outside opinion - it would be really appreaciated. If you want to know any important details, ask.
God damn thanks in advance!