Hickies: A mark of shame or a badge of honor?

[SomethingClever]

I don't know if this has been discussed yet, but in my experience, it's gone both ways. It's a badge of honor because when chicks see hickies on you, they think, 'damn, this guy gets action. I need me some of that'. Because as a rule of thumb, chicks want what other chicks have.

But it can also be a mark of shame because it makes you look like a player. I mean, sure, chicks like players, but they don't like getting played or looking like a slut. So it's possible that a chick that you're spitting G at will be cold to you if you have visible hickies. They'll think, 'man, this guy gets action. And he's flirting with me pretty hard. He's probably a player, i'm not gonna get played, so i'll be cold to him'. Or, 'man, this guy gets action. But i'm not gonna give him any because people will think i'm a slut, cause they might get the crazy idea that i gave him that hickie' or something crazy like that.

But anyway, I'd like to get opinions on this matter. So yeah, are hickies game killers or game aids?

 

[horaholic]

Hickeys are for 16 year olds and younger. They do not make you look like a player, just a retard. Would you game a chick with a hickey on her neck? Hell no.

 

[Trajhenkhet01]

To each their own. There should be a third category. For people already in 'exclusive' relationships and the other is not the one the hickie is from... At some work places it might not be professional to have them exposed. I highly recommend receiving them in concealed areas.

 

[The DomMega]

Hickies are great if you'd like to succumb to vacuum jokes and other mundane rhetoric about how you attained it. They serve no purpose except that whoever you were with the day before is capable of sucking really hard. Why don't they go ahead and put that skillset where it belongs, which to the slow ones out there, isn't on your neck. If any girl over the age of 18 is still doing that she is doing nothing but marking her territory for the public eye to see. A less marring example is if you go somewhere with a female that happens to have lots of other females there and the one you're with immediately starts making out with you to show the other women you're taken. It's has the exact same caliber of immaturity, just on a little bit lesser scale.

Hickies are dumb, period.

 

[horaholic]

To each their own. There should be a third category. For people already in 'exclusive' relationships and the other is not the one the hickie is from... At some work places it might not be professional to have them exposed. I highly recommend receiving them in concealed areas.

I dont really consider them hickeys, if they are in concealed ares. Those are just sex bruises if you ask me. I've had girls that loved to be bitten during sex, and there would be bite marks and bruises all over them, but thats totally different than the traditional makeout, neck hickey, imo.

My ex use to have me bite her shoulders HARD. She had people pull her aside in public and ask her if she was a battered wife. We weren't doing it for the sake of leaving marks, though. She just loved the feeling of my teeth in her flesh while we were fvcking. It kind of made it hard to breathe, for me!

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Do you let your dog piss on your pant leg? After all, he just wants other dogs to know this guy has a dog already.

 

[bukowski_merit]

as hor said - if it happens in the heat of $ex - then i don't mind it...

if the girl is kissing/making out with me and starts doing it - i'm going to pull away...

but if we're fvcking, and she's having a mind blowing orgasm and wants to sink her teeth and claws into me - more power to her - because i know that will make it even better for her... and i literally feel no pain during $ex, so it doesn't bother me at all... + the worse bite marks i've gotten have last 5-6 days tops...

the only problem with me is i have MLTRs and FBs - and some of them aren't cool with me being marked up like that =)