"Hi it's me.." on the phone

[Viking25]

How do you handle this? I mean a female calls you and you got no Caller ID and got no idea who she is! They seem to assume that I would know,but sometimes I can't figure out untill the end of conversation and of couse I don't want to offend them by asking : who the hell are U?
Any tips on this? Even with caller ID it's hard to remember all numbers.

 

[Trance]

Technology of the mobile phone didnt arrive there yet? Everyone uses mobile's nowdays, at least at my country.. I dont my house phone for years..

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by Viking25
and of couse I don't want to offend them by asking : who the hell are U?

and here lies the problem.

if you think that by her assuming you know alot of other women and find it difficult telling one apart from the other is doing you harm in her eyes you are VERY VERY much mistaken mate.

her : Hi, its me
you : and who might "me" be ?

too easy.

trust me when i tell you tv lied, the more chicks she thinks you know the better.

 

[ArmondTamzarian]

Hell, I never let anyone get away with that. Well, maybe my family. Even at work, our phones used to display names but I would ignore that. Anytime someone assumes they are important enough to be recognized, alway ask who it is. Even after dating one woman exclusively for more than a year. She calls up, and I aks,' who's this'. Remember you took the time to pick up the phone, they can take the time to tell you who it is.

 

[squirrels]

If you don't know, ask who it is.

She could sound just like your sister, mom, cousin, math teacher, stockbroker, and the 30 other girls you're currently dating.

If she gets offended, that's her tough luck.

 

[RogueWarrior]

Personally, I think it's nice to recognize a woman's voice and of course to be recognized.

However, a girl who I had a falling out with called me out of the blue six months later. We were on a "Hi, it's me" basis prior to this. She said "Hi." I said "Who's this?" She said "You don't remember?!?!" Now that sounds like a neg-hit to me.

But let's explore this a bit further. If you are on a "Hi, it's me." basis with a woman, does that lead to "Familiarity breeds contempt." especially if you're trying to DJ this girl?

 

[Aztec]

Yeah that happened to me last year. The girl really liked me unfortunately for her I didn't (still don't) feel the same way. I was only hitting it for the sex. That's it.

I knew it was her but I pretended that I don't so she wouldn't expect any "further" intimacy.

Anyway, I had to sacrifice the pssy to get rid of her. One of the best things I did as a DJ.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Viking25
How do you handle this? I mean a female calls you and you got no Caller ID and got no idea who she is! They seem to assume that I would know,but sometimes I can't figure out untill the end of conversation and of couse I don't want to offend them by asking : who the hell are U?
Any tips on this? Even with caller ID it's hard to remember all numbers.

I got a call like that the same week I got married. She wanted me to guess who it was, but little did she know the possibilities were too many. So I refused to guess but kept asking her who it was. After a few minutes she hung up... to this day I still don't know who it was. grrrr.....

 

[Aztec]

Re: Re: "Hi it's me.." on the phone

Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
I got a call like that the same week I got married. She wanted me to guess who it was, but little did she know the possibilities were too many. So I refused to guess but kept asking her who it was. After a few minutes she hung up... to this day I still don't know who it was. grrrr.....

Your wife never admitted to it, huh? j/k

 

[Crank_It_Up]

lol, we both wanted to know who the heck it was... oh well, one of life's little mysteries.

 

[CLOONEY]

I get this same problem a LOT. I just say, I am not sure, tell me.

Most of the time the chick will just keep saying, guess, guess, guess.........but I just keep saying I really dont know, tell me.....? And eventually she does tell me, its really not that big a problem then.

 

[Spike_Tha_Cowboy]

I would personally be very hurt if my male or female lover did not recognize my voice. I would probobly cry.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Don't listen to Spike_The_Cowgirl - he/she is a fag!!!!

Viking, just be honest and say "I didn't recognize your voice over the phone."

 

[Ace123]

Anyone remember the seinfeld about this? The girl jerry's dating gives him the "it's me" and so he calls her back and gives HER the "it's me".

The old switcheroo.
Great episode.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by Viking25
They seem to assume that I would know,but sometimes I can't figure out untill the end of conversation and of couse I don't want to offend them by asking : who the hell are U?

First of all, who cares if she's offended? This is the problem with most guys, they want to play everything safe and go out of their way to earn women's approval.

Broads do that as a way of marking their territory, specially when they leave you a voice message, just like leaving crap at your place, or trying to leave tacky hickies on your neck. The best reply is to tell her exactly what several posted above, ask her "Who's me?"

If she acts offended don't let it throw you off and make you sound apologetic. If she leaves a message you can even repond with "I can think of about 3 different people who sounded like the voice left on my cell.

And yes, as staed before, them knowing that there are other prospects in line that also call you, will only make you more desirable; but only if you don't appologize for it.

 

[Omni]

Pick a female name that doesn't actually belong to anyone you know, let's say "Jane," and then:

Unknown girl: Hi, it's me!!
You: Hey Jane, I'm glad you called; I finally found your thong, guess where it was?

;-)

 

[Oxide]

^^^^ hahaha, nice!



There is nothing wrong with calling out.. you can actually have a lot of fun, if you know she has a sense of humor.


"Hi, its me"

"Damn, you again, are you calling for my sex again?"



"Who is this, lemme guess.... Monica, Jessica, Liz, Katy, Tasha, Nicole... keep making up names..."


"Hi, it's me"
"Hi, it's me too!"

 

[tactic]

*Sigh*