Hi! I'm a freakin' newbie! Nice to meet ya!

[PrinceBeavis]

Hey all. That's right! Another for the most part clueless dufus, who was not more than a month ago, cuddling in the bed of the girl of his dreams, now feeling lucky to get a little text message from that girl on the cell phone, wondering what happened....and at least had the good sense to find this site, and lurk/read/absorb for awhile, and is trying to find a way out of this run-on sentence....how ya doin'?!

Yep! My case is nothing new, for sure, but here I am. Going to keep studying "the bible" and everything, but I would be a "wuss" if I didn't properly introduce myself.

Man, I'm a lot like JimiWaters, just fed up completely, and trying to find some answers, change the situation, and "inner game." I'm right there with how that dude wants to change the whole package, and not just use some pick-up techniques to score here and there.

^typing that out felt good^

...and I'm brave, bold, naive, and/or just plain dumb enough to want to try and save the situation with the dream girl. I'll tell you what, absorbing the articles, and materials here, along with running, biking, weight-training, meditating/praying, and talking to people has really helped me to (for a change) not completely blow the situation out of the water...But I sure got a long way to go.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

...nothing? Some welcome. Later.:moon:

 

[Docs]

I vote for the most creative newbie story of the month?

 

[blackbelt2k]

meditating/praying, a.

dude, i don't think you should be wasting god's time asking to get some.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

dude, i don't think you should be wasting god's time asking to get some.

Why not? He went out of his way, and made an entire girl so Adam can get some. It shouldn't be too much to ask to merely steer one my way, no?

Besides, the meditation/prayer is for myself, to loose the desperation, obsession, and to maintain self-control and all that.

Anyways, I'm gonna go do some running. This "gut" is going bye-bye.

 

[blackbelt2k]

lol, thats good... i was just giving you a hard time... for the gut, i recommend ab work with weights, deadlifts, squats, benchs too..

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Yep, some running, 1 or 2 hundred crunches, weights, some biking, and swinging an axe in the backyard.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Definitely. I wonder what he's like irl...

I look like Fabio in his prime, I wear a white, puffy-sleeved shirt with a laced collar, and I ride a beautiful white horse on the beach.:kick:

 

[Skel]

Why not? He went out of his way, and made an entire girl so Adam can get some. It shouldn't be too much to ask to merely steer one my way, no?

Besides, the meditation/prayer is for myself, to loose the desperation, obsession, and to maintain self-control and all that.

Anyways, I'm gonna go do some running. This "gut" is going bye-bye.

Why rely on God when you can do something yourself ?

 

[Sexual]

After checking this site on and off for years. You'll learn a ****ton, but nothing will make you lose your phobia, or "lack of," whatever is keeping you from getting laid. Remember: you can read until your genitals fall off, but it won't give you experience or physical satisfaction. If I could start over again, I'd just go talk to every woman I found attractive.

Look up the gunwitch method in the DJ Bible.

My only warning is to not go into an LTR until you're ready to settle down, weed out the undesirables, and get married. It will completely rob you of your life and make you forget everything you've learned here so that you have to start over again (though it does get easier every time). Trust me.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Why rely on God when you can do something yourself ?

I don't imagine we're here for a theological debate, it's all about life success, and success with women, whatever one's spiritual choice or whatever. My choice is God/church and all that. And it's me who is doing all the crunches, and it's me who is studying all this stuff, and working towards applying it.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

After checking this site on and off for years. You'll learn a ****ton, but nothing will make you lose your phobia, or "lack of," whatever is keeping you from getting laid. Remember: you can read until your genitals fall off, but it won't give you experience or physical satisfaction. If I could start over again, I'd just go talk to every woman I found attractive.

Look up the gunwitch method in the DJ Bible.

My only warning is to not go into an LTR until you're ready to settle down, weed out the undesirables, and get married. It will completely rob you of your life and make you forget everything you've learned here so that you have to start over again (though it does get easier every time). Trust me.

Thanks.


I hope it doesn't take years for me to get a clue. If it did, I'd be a lost cause anyways.

And I already took that step, when I first called her and asked her out....it was a very empowering moment...one that I took. Before that I was completely chicken-s*#t. I'm just at the point where I've done some wuss behavior, and now I'm all about turning it around if at all possible.

And I'm all for opening up, and practicing on talking to women, and all that, but I'm really only interested in this one. Maybe I'm crazy, maybe I'm stupid, but that's the way it is right now. I'm not into getting layed all over the place, I want this one. You know, LTR, marriage, all that. I'm wierd that way.

 

[jimiwaters79]

Hey PrinceBeavis... I dig your attitude and your commitment to nurturing your spirituality and developing your inner game... I think you'll go a long way! All I can say is this **** happens so fast. So many things have changed for me in just 3 or 4 days. I don't think I've ever had "bad game," as much as I lacked courage, desire, and commitment. I'm realling digging into this site. I'm studying the material and applying it with every girl that crosses my path. Today this gorgeous Italian girl came up to me in the restaurant to speak and began asking if I was a playboy... which she said in the sexiest, most exotic Italian accent. So it works! Not too mention I've lined up 3 dates this week. Met two Irish travelers today. And got a $100 tip yesterday at work!

This is no bull****!!!

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Hey PrinceBeavis... I dig your attitude and your commitment to nurturing your spirituality and developing your inner game... I think you'll go a long way! All I can say is this **** happens so fast. So many things have changed for me in just 3 or 4 days. I don't think I've ever had "bad game," as much as I lacked courage, desire, and commitment. I'm realling digging into this site. I'm studying the material and applying it with every girl that crosses my path. Today this gorgeous Italian girl came up to me in the restaurant to speak and began asking if I was a playboy... which she said in the sexiest, most exotic Italian accent. So it works! Not too mention I've lined up 3 dates this week. Met two Irish travelers today. And got a $100 tip yesterday at work!

This is no bull****!!!

Thanks for the encouragement, bro!

That's really cool to hear all that stuff. One thing I didn't think of, and you have, is to apply a more outgoing approach to everyone, not just chicks. That's cool, and I've tried it myself. I realized that I'm more popular, and more outgoing, and more socially successful than I gave myself credit for.


I saw my girl yesterday at her great aunt's funeral ( I go to a LOT of funerals). She was sitting in her new car, talking on the phone. I pretended not to see her (she saw me), and just walked by with my David Coverdale rock star strut. A bit later, I pretended not to see her again (again she saw me, and was expecting a greeting),. The third time, after I made her walk right past me, so I had no choice but to see her, I touched her arm as I said hello. I then continued my discussion about spark plugs with my buddy, so she kind of awkardly wandered off. I felt strange to let a girl "get away" like that, but I did it anyways. To chase her, and cling would have felt worse.

At the gravesite, I kept a distance, while still giving a sense that I was there.
I saw her looking at me a couple of times. I did some shoveling (where I come from we actually do the burying), then while she was still just a few feet away, I talked to some more buddies about how to carry a coffin lid, and had fun doing that (like I said, I go to a LOT of funerals, it's just natural for us).
Then, finally I approached. I greeted and kissed her mother, then her aunt (not the dead one), and even showed interest in her aunt's wrist injury. Basically, I was pretending to be Criss Angel. Anyways, only after all that did I talk to her. Even then I kept it on the short side. I smiled, was gentle, and touched her arm again, before I took off. A few weeks ago, I would have stuck around 'til the cows came home. This time, I made myself a little scarce. She definitely was noticing a difference. Probably not so much attraction just yet, but more a little astonishment...which is a good start.


I also did some of that joke-teasing twice, and complimented her mother's singing, on text messages.

Now, I'll make myself scarce to her for a few days at least.

Anyways, that's my story. Kind of boring I guess, no crazy episodes of boinking wild women, but that's my speed.

It feels really good to have some control.

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

I greeted and kissed her mother, then her aunt (not the dead one)

:crackup:

It looks like you're on your way, keep at it. And before long, the stories you call boring are going to be torrid affrairs that most men can only fantasize about .

 

[PrinceBeavis]

"After I kissed her mother and aunt, we snuck away behind a tombstone, and fVcked each other's brains out." You like that better?!:moon: :kick:

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

Hey you said it was boring, and I just thought you pointing out you didn't kiss the dead one was funny. But your revision is pretty good, just as long as you're not into necrophilia .

 

[PrinceBeavis]

.....All jokes aside, I'm thinking. ...feeling like a total "afc" or whatever you call it. I need to stop whining about this chick, and go out, and just get my own sh*t together...my own life. Geez, so I had like an hour of pretending to be a DJ, and I fall apart the very next day. I'm sure tomorrow, I'll begin to pull myself back up off the ground, but dang.
It's all good though...it's a start. I'll just keep working on it all.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

...Don't EVER give up. Don't ever quit...ever. Just keep going. I am the prize.