Hey everyone, sorry it took me a while to return to this thread. Thanks to those who have responded so far
To Cadillac:
Haha, no that's not how are conversations go. When we talked, we spoke about things related to school, our home city, hobbies etc.
Anyways, here's the update on the situation:
I was eating dinner with my friend (whom introduced her to me) on April Fools Day. I told him about my POSSIBLE interest in her (can never be too sure until we actually date, trying to keep a DJ state of mind here). He said that she mentioned me to him before some time ago, saying I was nice to go and sit with her at breakfast (good sign?). But my friend didn't know she was referring to me until this point b/c she forgot my name (bad sign). Don't worry though, she knows my name now
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Later that night (and I mean late), I took the iniative and knocked on her door and asked her whats up and if she had any perfume for me to borrow (for an april fools joke). She said yeah and handed it to me. I asked her if she needed it back right away, and she said no and that i can bring it back another time. But I decided that I'd bring it right back after I'm done.
So I come back and return her perfume, and asked what she was working on. There we talked about stuff for several minutes until she said she had to get back to work, so there I took my leave (lesson learned here: be the one to break the conversation). But the most important thing to note from my conversation with her was that she was smiling non-stop throughout the conversation (great sign). The reason I didn't stop the conversation earlier was b/c I was trying to figure out in my mind at the time if I should I ask her out the next night. I ended up not asking b/c she was gonna head back to our home city for the weekend so the timing didn't work out.
Anyways, earlier tonight I was eating dinner with the same friend who knows her. He brought up that she had mentioned me again to him about me asking for perfume (good sign?). But he then makes a good point saying that she could just be making conversation with him since they both know me. So is the mentioning of me a good sign?
Either way, I'm planning to ask her out. THe problem is the timing. Exams are coming real soon (a week and a half from now) so all students will be busy. What I had in mind was to talk to her as usual and then tell her that I enjoy her company and that we should go do something fun together after exams back at our home city. (THis is where I wil TELL her to hand over her home phone number). Should I do this as soon as possible or wait till most of her exams are done? I ask this b/c I want to know which time would allow her to think about me more. IF i ask as soon as possible, she will have her mind busy concentrating on exams. If I ask her during the last days before she moves out of residence, then it may be too late and I may be waiting too long, but she will have a clearer head and will be waiting for my call.
Does the above sound good? If not, can you suggest something else?
In addition, I need to work some kino in to avoid LJBF. Our eye contact is strong and we're both smiling. So logically, kino should come into play even though I know I should've done it earlier. I can't seem to find a way though.
