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Don Juan
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First of all, I just want to say hello to everyone out there as I'm new to the board and just starting out in the road to becoming a DJ.
Let me give you guys a brief summary of my situation. I'm in university, living in res. There's this girl whom I met through another friend that I'm interested in. Turns out she's also from the same city I'm originally from. So I've talked to her a few times last month when I saw her eating breakfast alone, and made some small talk. Seems like a nice and quiet girl, but at the same time I feel that's not all there is to her. She's also focused on her school work and such, more so than the average student (I'm guilty
) Everytime though, she was the one to say "I gotta get going now" since she goes to class straight right after breakfast. I regret not kinoing and not connecting w/ her on a more personal level since we barely know each other.
So 2 weeks later, I was going down the elevator and I see her popping in as well. I said "hey how's it going?", and as always, she replies with "doing homework". I noted that she stood right beside me when she came into the elevator, not facing me like other ppl would. Then later that evening, I was in my friend's room when she calls him to ask him about work. So my friend (who doesn't know of my interest in her) tells her to come up to his room. When she walked in, I questioned her "hey, are you following me around?" She responds by turning the question back to me with a smile and in her cute voice, so I said "sure whatever, I just saw this girl in the elevator, tracking me down" to my other friend. I got back to doing my thing while she consulted w/ my friend about the work. Out of the corner of my eye, I can see her turn to look at me for a second or two and turned back. This must be some sort of a sign for a level of interest....or so I thought.
Days later, I saw her at breakfast again as I made my way in. She glanced at me while she was making her way to sit down w/ her floor mates but didn't say hi or anything. So I ate my breakfast and as I was about to leave, she was putting her stuff away too and I said "hey" and kept walking as she responded with a "hey" as well. Fast forward a week or 2, I was getting some food during dinner and she comes to get food as well and says "hey". THere, I quickly said hi blah blah blah...then i asked her if I could borrow something, and she said "Yes if i have it, what room r u in?" I gave her my room number and told her that i won't be in till late at night and proceeded to ask for her room number and got it. So later that night, I called her room but no one answered. 10 minutes or so later, she calls me asking if I just called her (how did she know it was me and not somebody else?). So i kept it brief and wished her a good night.
I know this post is dragging long, but it seems like half the time I get positive reactions while the other times I'm not feeling it from her. Like sometimes we make good eye contact and reflect smiles at each other, while other times she doesn't make eye contact when she sees me in the cafe. Although that maybe b/c she's sorta shy. Our conversations have been kept brief due to the circumstances of the situations we're in (breakfast, elevator etc.). My question is, how should I approach this situation? What ideas do you guys suggest I should do? THanks for taking your time to read this long post ( sorry, typical newbie of me).
Let me give you guys a brief summary of my situation. I'm in university, living in res. There's this girl whom I met through another friend that I'm interested in. Turns out she's also from the same city I'm originally from. So I've talked to her a few times last month when I saw her eating breakfast alone, and made some small talk. Seems like a nice and quiet girl, but at the same time I feel that's not all there is to her. She's also focused on her school work and such, more so than the average student (I'm guilty
) Everytime though, she was the one to say "I gotta get going now" since she goes to class straight right after breakfast. I regret not kinoing and not connecting w/ her on a more personal level since we barely know each other. So 2 weeks later, I was going down the elevator and I see her popping in as well. I said "hey how's it going?", and as always, she replies with "doing homework". I noted that she stood right beside me when she came into the elevator, not facing me like other ppl would. Then later that evening, I was in my friend's room when she calls him to ask him about work. So my friend (who doesn't know of my interest in her) tells her to come up to his room. When she walked in, I questioned her "hey, are you following me around?" She responds by turning the question back to me with a smile and in her cute voice, so I said "sure whatever, I just saw this girl in the elevator, tracking me down" to my other friend. I got back to doing my thing while she consulted w/ my friend about the work. Out of the corner of my eye, I can see her turn to look at me for a second or two and turned back. This must be some sort of a sign for a level of interest....or so I thought.
Days later, I saw her at breakfast again as I made my way in. She glanced at me while she was making her way to sit down w/ her floor mates but didn't say hi or anything. So I ate my breakfast and as I was about to leave, she was putting her stuff away too and I said "hey" and kept walking as she responded with a "hey" as well. Fast forward a week or 2, I was getting some food during dinner and she comes to get food as well and says "hey". THere, I quickly said hi blah blah blah...then i asked her if I could borrow something, and she said "Yes if i have it, what room r u in?" I gave her my room number and told her that i won't be in till late at night and proceeded to ask for her room number and got it. So later that night, I called her room but no one answered. 10 minutes or so later, she calls me asking if I just called her (how did she know it was me and not somebody else?). So i kept it brief and wished her a good night.
I know this post is dragging long, but it seems like half the time I get positive reactions while the other times I'm not feeling it from her. Like sometimes we make good eye contact and reflect smiles at each other, while other times she doesn't make eye contact when she sees me in the cafe. Although that maybe b/c she's sorta shy. Our conversations have been kept brief due to the circumstances of the situations we're in (breakfast, elevator etc.). My question is, how should I approach this situation? What ideas do you guys suggest I should do? THanks for taking your time to read this long post ( sorry, typical newbie of me).
