hey guys im new so heres my story

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ive known this girl for about 3 yrs, weve never gone out and we really like each other her names jessica. we tryed going out earlier last year since were both teens in school i didnt have a car and she could never stay after school so it made it really hard, eventually she wanted to wait and i pushed this before i found this site so i didnt know i shouldve backed off but i pursued making her feel smothered. well any way we started talking again shes basically forgiven for everything ive ever done to her like getting her best friends to spy on her at a school dance because her ex was planning to make a show. She got mad at me for like a week then forgave me .also the time i got high and said a bunch of **** to her friends about how much of a ***** she was and a closet slut which i didnt mean i was high after all. And the other time when my friend ripped a picture off the front of her locker her friends put it up for her 18th b-day and my ******* friend aaron "the one that pretended to be the girl for those of you who dont know look at my previous post" anyway i keep telling jess i dont have the pic for weeks and weeks finally i tell her and she is really pissed off i tell her i was fixing it to put it in a frame but the frame was back ordered. she breaks it off and i dont talk to her for 2 months ,she comes back though and now were closer than ever, but heres the killer shes going off to college in about a week "im a junior shes a senior" in boston and now i wont see her for a year and i really love her and she despite it all says she still cares for me. She put me through alot as far as mental anguish and being immature putting up the dreaded emotional walls but i always got through and she knows me better than anyone and vice versa. im planning on chasing her to boston or where ever she may be when i graduate school next year, shes too special to let go. what do you think?


whats every ones opinion?
 

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Don't do it bro, I know it seems like she's "the one" but trust me in another year she will be a different person (and probably fvcked 10 ways to Sunday by half the frat house). You think she'll wait for you? Ha! Sorry dude but someone has to pull you back to reality. You have known her for 3 years and nothing has happened? Move on. Date other girls, work on your game, enjoy life, don't obsess over one particular girl, etc.

At the very least, DON'T choose which school you go to based on a highschool romance. It *might* work... even if you have the same odds of winning the lottery:rolleyes: You've got one last year in High School, don't waste it! Look into all the other opportunities that are out there...
 

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Originally posted by Batman
im planning on chasing her to boston or where ever she may be when i graduate school next year, shes too special to let go. what do you think?
I think you're acting like a fvcking stalker. Don't be surprised if you end up with a restraining order.
 

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Chase her bro!

Then when her football boyfriend comes and pumbles your a$$, dont be surprised. Grow up kid.

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guy guys guys

she isnt in to jocks she isnt like every other ****in girl ok i told her i was going with her end of story she said ok and that she was impressed. the lines of communication will stay open and thats that. plus if your gonna flame me dont do it here .
 

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The flaming of newbies is a form of "Tough Love", around here. It means wake up and smell your ass. You reak of all things AFC.

You need to step back and be objective for a minute. Listen to yourself. Look what you posted.

You are insane.

She is not different, she is not special. She is like every other girl in school.
Your little AFC brain is too caught up in the fantasy you've built around her to see the truth.

Teen in Highschool? ....yep, I can tell.

The only reason she might appear to have any feelings at all and forgives you is because you're bringing some drama to her life; by being a complete wacko.:eek:

She likes the drama, not you.

Grow some balls, have some pride and get on with your life.

The Bad Ass Canadian
 

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Let's see, where to start..... oh, fvck it, I don't even know where to BEGIN. Bud, you need to start by COMPLETELY cutting off all contact with this girl. Like, yesterday. Right now, you have NO chance with her, whatsoever. Don't like that? Tough. You've fvcked yourself to the point where your shot is GONE. So forget her. After that... man, I don't know how to help you. I hope someone else on here can, 'cause I don't even know where to start.
 
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