"He's too short it sucks"

[Hamurabimbi]

I've asked myself if this is only in my mind, but it's not. No, of course not.

I've met women who straight-up told me they'd be in a relationship with me, but felt awkward about having a man 5-10 cm shorter because it wouldn't make them feel secure. They explained this but couldn't say why. However, they said I have a well above average face.

It has happened to me that many women stare at my face, and usually start the body language thing from afar. Then, once I have raised up from being seated, or just when they realize that I am short, they change their behaviour and lose their interest.

It has also happened to me that some women stare at me and have complimented my eyes.

It has also happened to me, when talking to women, that they look me directly in the eyes and engage in prolonged eye contact, like more than 6 or 7 seconds. In contrast, I've noticed that when my friends talk with women, those women usually break eye contact after 2 or 3 seconds.

I get to notice these nuances in people's interactions. I just wanted to share my point of view..

Your examples all incredibly subtle. If you are actually good looking you’ll have experiences like this:

You’re chilling at a bar with a buddy. A girl comes up to you and buys you a drink.

You meet a random girl at a hiking club event. An hour later she wants to go back to town & get a motel room with you.

You’re at a client work location. A girl you vaguely know comes up to you and says: ‘You probably don’t care what people think about you. But, you’re really good looking.’.

etc…

 

[Millard Fillmore]

I've asked myself if this is only in my mind, but it's not. No, of course not.

I've met women who straight-up told me they'd be in a relationship with me, but felt awkward about having a man 5-10 cm shorter because it wouldn't make them feel secure. They explained this but couldn't say why. However, they said I have a well above average face.

It has happened to me that many women stare at my face, and usually start the body language thing from afar. Then, once I have raised up from being seated, or just when they realize that I am short, they change their behaviour and lose their interest.

It has also happened to me that some women stare at me and have complimented my eyes.

It has also happened to me, when talking to women, that they look me directly in the eyes and engage in prolonged eye contact, like more than 6 or 7 seconds. In contrast, I've noticed that when my friends talk with women, those women usually break eye contact after 2 or 3 seconds.

I get to notice these nuances in people's interactions. I just wanted to share my point of view.



I've never mentioned my height or any other thing in a human interaction, but analyzing things, and getting feedback, it's obvious. People of the other sex confirm that also.

I see, thanks for sharing. How tall are you again? Have you dated very short/petite women? There are a lot out there. My buddy is maybe 5'5" and he pulled well (sometimes a bit taller) and eventually married a girl around his height. He wasn't jacked or rich either.

The eye contact thing - that's probably a side effect of your self consciousness. And it's not the be all end all.