He's Handsome, but he doesn't have a girlfriend?

[The Mad Ghost]

My life story in one. I constantly get "He's handsome isn't he?, Why don't you have a girlfriend?" I've had that over 5 times this week. Courtesy of my new awesome haircut. LOL. But seriously, tonight, my sister-in-law said, "I've never seen you with a girlfriend"

What does this mean? I've slept with 25 girls, I also had a girlfriend before she got involved with my brother. She just hasn't seen her. But, I was about to get reactive to the comment, but I just said some witty reply, "What, you think I'm gay do ya?"

What does this mean? How comes you don't have a girlfriend? She's right htough, why don't I have a girlfriend?

 

[☜╬☞]

Why do you care? If you're comfortable with your lifestyle, then there's no need to worry. Keep doing what you're doing and bang many different chicks without any commitments.

 

[f283000]

Do you look like a nice guy? Chances are if you're good looking and look like a nice guy you will get this sort of stuff a lot which in my opinion are thinly veiled attempts at questioning your sexuality/masculinity.

It's simple. You think women are going to be questioning guys that dress like gang bangers with shaved heads "why don't you have a girlfriend?" Of course not! Those guys command respect and got women all over them (bad boys), but a freaking nice guy invites disrespect from women and just about everyone.

I can relate to your problem but don't think of it as a negative. I always thought of keeping my romantic life private as just a way to reduce drama in my life and it has worked. I tell you from experience. This is why i had to change my look, grew facial hair, got rid of my long hair and got me some edgier clothing (leather jacket). I went from looking to women like another nice guy that looks like he is single to a guy that probably is gaming a bunch of women. Women want what they can't have remember that.

Another thing is that I try not to mix friends with girlfriends i'm a big privacy freak. If i'm going out with my girlfriend it's just us 2 and nobody else. If I want to hang out with my friends i ain't bringing my girlfriend along. There is nothing I hate more than having to meet my girlfriend's stupid/obnoxious girlfriends and I avoid it as much as possible for as long as I can. I also never brought a girl to my parents. They just assumed I had girlfriends from me coming home at am hours on the weekends i just told them i was out with my buddies

I was never "boyfriend material" in what I consider the guy that all he does is hang out with his girlfriend on his free time. Most of my free time is spent on working on internet projects/business. I keep women in my life for dates/sex.

 

[joe henny]

because you slept with 25 women. Duh

 

[backbreaker]

wait. wait.. what the ****... go back to this girl sleeping with your brother ****. you just can't skim past that

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I get the same thing. "Hey handsome,I can't believe you don't have a girlfriend?"

I tell them because I enjoy being single and don't need a girlfriend to feel good about myself and my life. Women are only allowed in my life to compliment it. Not to be the center of it".

That usually shuts them up.

 

[DonJuan_DeRosco]

wait. wait.. what the ****... go back to this girl sleeping with your brother ****. you just can't skim past that

I think he means before his sister-in-law started seeing his brother. Not that his gf started seeing his brother.

I know, i had to re-read it twice as well.

 

[HariPoter13]

No, you got it wrong. Backbreaker is right, after all he started his own successful business before the age of 25 and even sold it. He must be right.

 

[loveshogun]

It's not like being good-looking is the only requirement for a girl wanting to stay with you, or that being good-looking would only attract women who act right.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

Its exactly as f28000 said. I am a big privacy freak. What beats me, is why she would ask that. I felt a little belittled, made me look like an outcast. My brother with his wife and my cousin with his wife, all went out on the night. I kinda noticed they all stuck together, holding hands, whilst I was texting some stupid girl. Trying ot get in on the convos.

I've done well over 100 approaches so far this year. Alot of flakes, and alot of uninterest. Although, I close around 90% of my approaches and 99.9% of the girls I smash, want to be my girlfriend or FB . Anyway, I'm not saying being good looking insures that you SHOULD have a grilfriend, but I'm probably one of the most lovable douchebags on this board. I put my personality out there and I really just don't give a flying fvck. I've had girls shouting down the street at me this week, making my friends jealous because they thought I was the only good looking one out of the bunch, yet, when it goes beyond approaching and installing a day 2, the flakes and uninterest flood in which an average looking dude without game should be getting.

 

[☜╬☞]

Anyway, I'm not saying being good looking insures that you SHOULD have a grilfriend, but I'm probably one of the most lovable douchebags on this board. I put my personality out there and I really just don't give a flying fvck.

Well maybe that's why they don't take you seriously.

You're great one-night-stand material, though.

 

[f283000]

Its exactly as f28000 said. I am a big privacy freak. What beats me, is why she would ask that. I felt a little belittled, made me look like an outcast. My brother with his wife and my cousin with his wife, all went out on the night. I kinda noticed they all stuck together, holding hands, whilst I was texting some stupid girl. Trying ot get in on the convos.

lol exactly!

I think you post describes exactly the difference between those stuck in relationships and those trying to live the life of a DJ.

The average guy with a girlfriend is the guy that you see walking around holding hands with his gf, spending money on dinner and movie tickets for his gf, puts up with all the drama of a relationship just to get some pu$$y from his gf which doesn't happen often.

Then you have the guy that you might see walking around alone and think he is single and has nothing going on when he might be spinnin 5 plates on the side.

One of the reasons women hate djs/players is because THEY ARE NOT DOING WHAT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO! A woman hates a guy that is doing his own thing and doesn't get stuck in a relationship/settle down like he's "supposed to" but instead is gaming multiple women and is having the time of his life.

She hates that type of guy but boy do they find them attractive! Women might hate your success and love it at the same time they are weird creatures.

Always remember that women no matter if it's your mother to your girlfriend they are pre-disposed to trying to contain your masculine energy. They want you to be good boys, they want you settling down and ruining your life in a marriage and doing everything that restricts your freedom as a man to do whatever you want.

 

[Gears of Led Zep]

Do you look like a nice guy? Chances are if you're good looking and look like a nice guy you will get this sort of stuff a lot which in my opinion are thinly veiled attempts at questioning your sexuality/masculinity.

You're way to paranoid about this type of thing, every thread thats remotely about appearing gay, you come in and tell guys to worry about other people's thoughts!!!

I get you probably struggled with it in the past, but shouldnt you be over it by now, having ****ed lots of girls, who gives a **** if some think you 'might' be gay, cuz you know otherwise?

 

[jtlancer]

One of the reasons women hate djs/players is because THEY ARE NOT DOING WHAT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO! A woman hates a guy that is doing his own thing and doesn't get stuck in a relationship/settle down like he's "supposed to" but instead is gaming multiple women and is having the time of his life.

F'in a right! I've had this sh&t my whole life.
Why are you going to the gym, why are you taking so many vitamins,
why won't you eat this cake, etc, etc. The superior man gets
other people questioning their lives and makes them uncomfortable.

You don't owe anyone an explanation for being awesome.

 

[sux2bu]

George Clooney got it right.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

And here we go again. I don't see the point of trying to hide these looks threads behind titles like this. Don't try to church it up. Just come right out and ask that ultra-elusive Question of the Ages!:

Do looks matter, and if so how much?

 

[The Mad Ghost]

And here we go again. I don't see the point of trying to hide these looks threads behind titles like this. Don't try to church it up. Just come right out and ask that ultra-elusive Question of the Ages!:

Do looks matter, and if so how much?

Haha. Nah, not atall JASA. I am in no need to argue with you over that issue. I already know whats the deal, looks only matter if you're incapable of having any form of game. Good Looks also help you get your foot through the door. Period. This is actually a genuine problem that recurs for me.