heres my story

[the pain]

one year ago ,i met this girl she was the kween in my college i met her got her phone...and she seemed interested ...after that i had some sord of sex with her she is a virgin...if you know what i mean ..months passed and she told me we should stay in secret relation ....friends ..yet we can sleep together ..well she told me all about her life ,imean details .....and what i found that is that some jerk abused her and that she is madly in love ...i helped her out of it...yet since that i have another religion and that me and her can never dream of any future we had to stay
friends and a bit more
she is a real nice person but when i admitted that i love her she began to control me in every sence of the world
i faild my classes ,was obssesed with her ,did the impossible but nothing would ever convince her of saying the world i desired
i love you...she wanted someone that can last for a life time ,,,a mariage...
when someone good appeared she litterly dumped me in the nicest possible way ...she asked me to become friends ...i was happy for her ..but i was lost ..i could never find anyone i desire or anyone that i can look and admire,,,,my life falled appart ...
then she sended me a message that there is a problem...i was exited ...i helped her out again ...we spent about 50 hours on the phone each night .....we went back to the sex thing but she was diffrent ...she sweared to me that in her life she has kissed only one man but me her beloved jerk...
i went to every trik i know...
nothing worked but guess what ...i did the best thing in my life i got the dj bible though its only a weak that im reading in it but im feeling much better i know i dont care what happen i only want the best
tonight i called her and i made her angry because i was no longer obssessed with her ...it feals great so thanks dj bible
and plz tell me what you think of this what happened between us how can i make her feel that she realy need me....billi

 

[Knicknack]

i know english is not your native language, but your writing is somewhat difficult to understand.

you have admitted you have ONEITIS with this girl, so that is your starting point with moving on. you need to explore other options instead of continually trying to win her over. the harder you try to more distant she will become. your best bet is to back away and let her sense that you no longer NEED her. there is a difference between what you need and what you want.

this will take days, weeks, months. be patient.

 

[squirrels]

Short answer: Read the DJ Bible AGAIN, and this time think about it.

Shorter answer: MOVE ON ALREADY!!

You are letting this girl drive your life into the ground! Take control of yourself!

 

[Julian]

DUDE YOU HAVE A LIFE THREATENING CASE OF ONE-ITIS.

Forget this MANIPULATIVE, CONNIVING, FUCCING SLUT!

 

[Kodiac]

I know it's hard to convince yourself, but you have to.
This chick is a COMPLETE waist of your time. She is just playing you along, DUMP her already...4 GOOD, move on.
Read the bible, do the boot camp and approach more women, i guarantee if you do all this you will find someone who actually deserves your attention!

It doesn't matter what happened between you. All that matter is that she isn't for you.

NEXT

 

[icepick]

First off, you don't want to end up pining over this girl.

You know the saying "for every love that is lost, a new love is born"? It is so very true that it is SCARY.

You have to open your eyes to all of the beautiful girls floating around you. Believe me, you will be drawn to some in time.

I would advise you to not talk to the other girl. You aren't going to forget her so soon, but THE MORE GIRLS YOU MEET THE FASTER YOU WILL GET OVER HER.

Any problems you have with dating other women will probably stem from your fear of 'getting back in the game'. Know this, and don't be a p*ssy, and you will be just fine.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Here's a hint if you can't be with a certain girl. If your life is messed up.. ie. bad grades, poor work performance/or no job.

There you go.

It's the same deal for me, if a girl can't hold a job or even attempt to look for a job, I just keep her around as entertainment. I am investing MORE time than she is since I am working and if she is not. Therefore there is an unbalance.

 

[the pain]

im trying to change

so ok i got all of your points but guys
moving along that simple how about some revenge
i think ill try to get some feelings of anger from her
since she is my friend its my duty to get her to the ground of reality


misssssssssion in progressss the pain will be inside
of her heart

 

[Julian]

LOL


Dude, forgive and forget. Karma has a way of dealing with people who take advantage of others. Any malovelent things you do will further bad things. Just forget about the b1tch and MOVE THE FUCC ON HOMIE!