roman
Don Juan
I've been on a hot streak at the bars and clubs lately (fvck closed two cute girls in the past 4 days) and thought it would be fun to make my own short guide to picking up women. Here's what you do:
- Keep up your physical appearance. Being well-groomed and dressing stylishly helps out immensely. Keep up with your personal hygiene and invest in some nice clothes that fit well; it will be sure to improve your success with women. Working out is a definite success booster too, and all it takes is a little time commitment of 3 days of lifting a week and a little cardio. Wear just a single spray of cologne on your neck before you go out to the bar / club or on a date. The nose of a woman is like a bloodhound--she WILL notice the cologne you're wearing when you're dancing close in the club or leaning in to talk in her ear at the bar, so take the time to invest in a good cologne. Always keep your breath fresh with gum or mints, and keep chapstick on hand.
- Have positive energy / attitude. Smile and joke around. Keep the conversation light and funny. If you're in a good mood, it'll rub off on her. If you have to, watch a clip from your favorite comedy movie or listen to a recording of your favorite comedian before going out.
- Fly solo. Not many people will tell you to do this, but don't knock it till you've tried it. Show up at the club or bar just a couple hours before closing time and don't bring any friends with you. If a girl you're gaming asks you who you came with or where your friends are at, tell her you came with a buddy and his girlfriend but they left together not too long ago. Sarging alone is great because you can focus on approaching as many women as possible without having to worry about your buddy. A) you spend your time approaching women instead of talking to your buddy(ies) half the time, and B) you dont have to worry about who gets the hot one and who plays the wingman who has to talk to the less-attractive girl.
- Take control. In conversation, on the dance floor, in the bedroom. Be the confident leader. Bring her into YOUR reality.
- Touch her. Don't smother her with touch, but assert your presence and keep her interest level high by touching her. I love this one: lean in, put your hand on her lower back, and talk in her ear in a low voice when you're at the bar or club. Women love this. Also, if you're sitting next to an HB at the bar, when you lean in to talk to her just lightly rest your hand on her thigh as you talk. It should be almost imperceptible, but it will drive her crazy and she'll start to touch you back.
- Approach. 99.9% of the time, she won't approach you first. So just go balls to the wall and make the approach. How fvcking hard can it be to walk up to a girl and talk to her?? Watch the movie Swingers and listen to Trent's advice to Mikey. She's the bunny rabbit cowering in the corner, and you're the big bear with sharp teeth and claws. Don't hesitate, just make the kill. Even if she's with a girl friend or two, make the approach.
- ABC. Always Be Closing. Kiss close. Number close at the very least. Invite her back to your place for a drink, and stress how close by your place is (a short walk / a short cab ride away).
and finally...
- Your apartment: clean, tidy, well-decorated, and close to the action. This just recently came up in a thread. I can't stress this enough, your apartment is KEY to success in making a fvck close. it's where the magic happens. Don't bring her to a sh1thole. Keep your place clean and tidy, stocked with drinks (wine and liquor), interesting artwork / decorations on the walls, and invest in a decent speaker system. Have at least a double-size bed. If you have the means, get an apartment close to the bar / club scene. This boosts your success rate 1000 fold. I guarantee you it's worth the investment.
Roman
- Keep up your physical appearance. Being well-groomed and dressing stylishly helps out immensely. Keep up with your personal hygiene and invest in some nice clothes that fit well; it will be sure to improve your success with women. Working out is a definite success booster too, and all it takes is a little time commitment of 3 days of lifting a week and a little cardio. Wear just a single spray of cologne on your neck before you go out to the bar / club or on a date. The nose of a woman is like a bloodhound--she WILL notice the cologne you're wearing when you're dancing close in the club or leaning in to talk in her ear at the bar, so take the time to invest in a good cologne. Always keep your breath fresh with gum or mints, and keep chapstick on hand.
- Have positive energy / attitude. Smile and joke around. Keep the conversation light and funny. If you're in a good mood, it'll rub off on her. If you have to, watch a clip from your favorite comedy movie or listen to a recording of your favorite comedian before going out.
- Fly solo. Not many people will tell you to do this, but don't knock it till you've tried it. Show up at the club or bar just a couple hours before closing time and don't bring any friends with you. If a girl you're gaming asks you who you came with or where your friends are at, tell her you came with a buddy and his girlfriend but they left together not too long ago. Sarging alone is great because you can focus on approaching as many women as possible without having to worry about your buddy. A) you spend your time approaching women instead of talking to your buddy(ies) half the time, and B) you dont have to worry about who gets the hot one and who plays the wingman who has to talk to the less-attractive girl.
- Take control. In conversation, on the dance floor, in the bedroom. Be the confident leader. Bring her into YOUR reality.
- Touch her. Don't smother her with touch, but assert your presence and keep her interest level high by touching her. I love this one: lean in, put your hand on her lower back, and talk in her ear in a low voice when you're at the bar or club. Women love this. Also, if you're sitting next to an HB at the bar, when you lean in to talk to her just lightly rest your hand on her thigh as you talk. It should be almost imperceptible, but it will drive her crazy and she'll start to touch you back.
- Approach. 99.9% of the time, she won't approach you first. So just go balls to the wall and make the approach. How fvcking hard can it be to walk up to a girl and talk to her?? Watch the movie Swingers and listen to Trent's advice to Mikey. She's the bunny rabbit cowering in the corner, and you're the big bear with sharp teeth and claws. Don't hesitate, just make the kill. Even if she's with a girl friend or two, make the approach.
- ABC. Always Be Closing. Kiss close. Number close at the very least. Invite her back to your place for a drink, and stress how close by your place is (a short walk / a short cab ride away).
and finally...
- Your apartment: clean, tidy, well-decorated, and close to the action. This just recently came up in a thread. I can't stress this enough, your apartment is KEY to success in making a fvck close. it's where the magic happens. Don't bring her to a sh1thole. Keep your place clean and tidy, stocked with drinks (wine and liquor), interesting artwork / decorations on the walls, and invest in a decent speaker system. Have at least a double-size bed. If you have the means, get an apartment close to the bar / club scene. This boosts your success rate 1000 fold. I guarantee you it's worth the investment.
Roman
