Here's how to approach women in bikinis on the beach.

[NealIRC]

An easy opener is to say “excuse me do you know any good restaurants around here” or coffee shops etc.

No, it makes you seem like a newb, and that you're new to the area. As well as questions that a smartphone can answer.

"Hey. Im sure you get this all the time but you are so beautiful."

Gauge her response. Did she stop? Did she smile? Is she receptive?

If at least she stop to talk to you, ask her name. Then ask her "Would you like to hang out sometime?"

Is she didnt stop and is not receptive you wish her a good day a be on your way. Dont overthink it. Remember Rollo: Rejection is better than regret.

While this is true, it doesn't mean use a shty line as possible. You might as well use a good line that a girl that isn't into you to begin with, to use on, and impress her with that.

Here's 2 simple ways. For when the chick is leaving the beach.

Drop a $20 bill on the ground behind her, then run around to the side of her, and say "Scuse me ma'am, I can't believe you just walked past a $20 bill and didn't notice it.

Another line, is to say,"Scuse me ma'am, there was a few dudes that took pics of you. Did you catch them?"

Use this line when she had spend a time wearing a thong, with butt facing up. So she is unable to see her surroundings...

And then you'll know by her reactions if she likes you or not. If she says stuff like "Oh, that happens all the time / men take pics of me all the time" that usually means she's hooked.

 

[Serenity]

I'm a man, I don't need to make up some cheesy excuse or lie to start talking to a woman.

 

[Learning Curve]

Here's 2 simple ways. For when the chick is leaving the beach.

Drop a $20 bill on the ground behind her, then run around to the side of her, and say "Scuse me ma'am, I can't believe you just walked past a $20 bill and didn't notice it.

Another line, is to say,"Scuse me ma'am, there was a few dudes that took pics of you. Did you catch them?"

Use this line when she had spend a time wearing a thong, with butt facing up. So she is unable to see her surroundings...

And then you'll know by her reactions if she likes you or not. If she says stuff like "Oh, that happens all the time / men take pics of me all the time" that usually means she's hooked.

Scusme ma'am really man?

Common.

 

[NealIRC]

I'm a man, I don't need to make up some cheesy excuse or lie to start talking to a woman.

You don't post this when others are asking these questions in their threads, only when I make my responses to those questions. Or in other words, I made this thread to set you up to post that. Welcome to you no longer hiding in the closet.

 

[NealIRC]

you're passing sh1t tests without realizing it. unless you've internalized the logic behind this process, you'll eventually crack. it's a facade. please understand the "why", not just the "what/how". nonetheless, congratulations good sir

And while it's good to pass sht tests, that generally involves you already being in a situation with women, i.e. conversation.

I'd like to know if even if women don't approach men, what about give sht tests to men? For men that didn't do anything to them. Does anyone have such stories?

 

[corrector]

I have a bunch of youtube playlists of bikini women at the beach, and they even have 360 degree and 180 degree videos. I have yet to play them on my VR-headset. The idea is if you get used to seeing these videos that it should be easy to approach women like that because you've trained your mind to do it all the time.

 

[NealIRC]

I have a bunch of youtube playlists of bikini women at the beach, and they even have 360 degree and 180 degree videos. I have yet to play them on my VR-headset. The idea is if you get used to seeing these videos that it should be easy to approach women like that because you've trained your mind to do it all the time.

I approach them all the time, at least solo girls, usually the slutty-dressed. Approaching isn't the issue for me...

 

[corrector]

Do you have a canned story that can occupy at least 5 minutes of a woman's attention. Like a few throwaway things like that?
I think if you are able to talk and hold a woman's attention and they looked engage into what you are saying then things should flow naturally from that. What we need is something interesting and engaging to say but if you don't have an adventerous or interesting life, it's sort of hard to pull that off.

 

[NealIRC]

Do you have a canned story that can occupy at least 5 minutes of a woman's attention. Like a few throwaway things like that?
I think if you are able to talk and hold a woman's attention and they looked engage into what you are saying then things should flow naturally from that. What we need is something interesting and engaging to say but if you don't have an adventerous or interesting life, it's sort of hard to pull that off.

I try not to talk for more than 30 seconds. And by taking off, I'm showing I'm not a thirst bucket. I try to catch them again 3 hours later when they left the area heading out.

 

[corrector]

I try not to talk for more than 30 seconds. And by taking off, I'm showing I'm not a thirst bucket. I try to catch them again 3 hours later when they left the area heading out.

This is what @European-DJ does, and other successful people on here. We are both incels here, and obviously don't like talking to women more than we have to. You cant employ chad-techniques and expect chad-results if you are a sub-5. They don't have to talk because their looks do most of the work.

Your strategy is not working for you (ie showing you are not a thirst bucket), so there are obviously accepted paramaters to being thirsty and showing thirst as long as you are not over-the-top with it.

 

[Serenity]

You don't post this when others are asking these questions in their threads, only when I make my responses to those questions. Or in other words, I made this thread to set you up to post that. Welcome to you no longer hiding in the closet.

Huh? I would always advise that. Not sure what you think you exposed here, I don't get it.

 

[NealIRC]

I'm a man, I don't need to make up some cheesy excuse or lie to start talking to a woman.

The point is to get women to approach men, or make them feel a loss for missing out.

You show up in their face, with something relevant, to sweep them off their feet, and then walk off. So, they see quality men, and miss out on.

Anyways, your argument goes both ways. Confident women don't need a cheesy line to talk to men either.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I work kink parties as a bouncer and cooler, I have conversations with young women who are either totally undressed or in sexy latex/leather, so I'm inundated for female nudity. Bikinis do not distract me, nor does it require a special approach to not stare at their boobies while you make your play.

 

[Serenity]

The point is to get women to approach men, or make them feel a loss for missing out.

You show up in their face, with something relevant, to sweep them off their feet, and then walk off. So, they see quality men, and miss out on.

Anyways, your argument goes both ways. Confident women don't need a cheesy line to talk to men either.

I'd rather talk to women like a normal confident guy, way more attractive in general.

You're not going to make ANY woman feel like they're missing out after a 10 second interaction starting with "'scuse me ma'am"... Neither are you going to sweep them off their feet or be relevant, they won't know you're quality even if you are, they don't know you at all aside from being the guy who opens with "'scuse me ma'am"...

Cheesy lines are the call sign of insecure men, unless a confident man delivers it in a way where he's obviously mocking that type of approach from other men, which shows her you're not yet another one of "those guys" while still getting the message across of "hey I'm making a move on you".

 

[NealIRC]

I'd rather talk to women like a normal confident guy, way more attractive in general.

That's what this is, talking to someone the same way you would a guy.

You're not going to make ANY woman feel like they're missing out after a 10 second interaction starting with "'scuse me ma'am"... Neither are you going to sweep them off their feet or be relevant, they won't know you're quality even if you are, they don't know you at all aside from being the guy who opens with "'scuse me ma'am"...

Cheesy lines are the call sign of insecure men, unless a confident man delivers it in a way where he's obviously mocking that type of approach from other men, which shows her you're not yet another one of "those guys" while still getting the message across of "hey I'm making a move on you".

But these aren't pick-up lines. These are genderless convos. If a man dropped a $20 bill from his pocket, I could just as use the line on him. That's what make these situations beautiful, you don't have to be seen as a pick-up artist.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Stare at a scantily dressed girl. Then say:
‘Well. I guess I won’t have pay any money for Only Fans tonight.’

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Here's 2 simple ways. For when the chick is leaving the beach.

Drop a $20 bill on the ground behind her, then run around to the side of her, and say "Scuse me ma'am, I can't believe you just walked past a $20 bill and didn't notice it.

Another line, is to say,"Scuse me ma'am, there was a few dudes that took pics of you. Did you catch them?"

Use this line when she had spend a time wearing a thong, with butt facing up. So she is unable to see her surroundings...

And then you'll know by her reactions if she likes you or not. If she says stuff like "Oh, that happens all the time / men take pics of me all the time" that usually means she's hooked.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Cheasy pickup lines doesn't work anyways.

Just have the big balls instead; be confident and upfront and say that you like her e.g.:
"hey I really like you" I mean the way you look and would love to get to know you more" So what about a date? something ish
(and listen to/be aware of her body language/vocal response etc.).
If IOI is there then close her with a instadate of some sort...

Rejection is indeed better than regret than not even trying.

 

[NealIRC]

Cheasy pickup lines doesn't work anyways.

Just have the big balls instead; be confident and upfront and say that you like her e.g.:
"hey I really like you" I mean the way you look and would love to get to know you more" So what about a date? something ish
(and listen to/be aware of her body language/vocal response etc.).
If IOI is there then close her with a instadate of some sort...

Rejection is indeed better than regret than not even trying.

The point is to get women to approach men, or make them feel a loss for missing out.

You show up in their face, with something relevant, to sweep them off their feet, and then walk off. So, they see quality men, and miss out on.

Anyways, this argument goes both ways. Confident women don't need a cheesy line to talk to men either.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

The point is to get women to approach men, or make them feel a loss for missing out.

Dude they have access to so many men these days its ridiculous. They don't even know/understand what FOMO is or even that it exist and they certainly do not cold approach.