How fast would you NEXT / cut off contact with this girl? Sorry, if the cliffnotes to this drama is hard to follow, it is just a really confusing situation.
I met one of the best looking chicks I've ever seen in my life in one of my classes this semester. We hit it off right away and it was obvious she wanted me after like the 2nd week of class or so.
Soon there after, we exchange numbers, began texting a little, nothing serious. And then we go out after class a few times and the sexual tension was obvious. Eventually, we start making out one night and she stops and tells me we can't do this, she is figuring things out with an ex-boyfriend or something. I laugh it off and she keeps kissing me. A few days later and the next time we go out we sleep together. And it got weird after like it usually does.
I asked her to hang out a few times after this night and she declined.
3-4 days later she texts me and tells me to come up to a bar she's at. I was at a local bar near there and stopped by a few hours later. We were dancing a little, flirting, same **** as usual. I was really drunk and she offered to drive me home. I agree and on the ride home she hit me with a ton of emotional ****. When we got outside my house, she asked me why I slept with her, she had to know. She thought I used her. She was almost crying at this point. I basically told her I didn't use her, but never gave her a great reason on why I did. I got out of the car pissed off, walked to my door while waiting for my roommate to answer, and she was still waiting outside. I told her to fvck off (lol) my roommate was coming.
She immediately starts blowing me up with really emotional texts how I am an *******. How she misses me every single day, wishes she was the only girl I was talking to, how she wants me all to herself. And just really crazy **** that caught me totally off guard since we haven't known eachother long. And I had no idea she felt this way, especially after she blew me off after we fvcked the first time.
Anyways, the next night I like an idiot agree to go out with this girl (she is ridiculously hot and I can't help myself, it's really embarrassing) .. We go out, she purposely gets me drunk, and we end up sleeping together again. The very next day she starts with the whacky **** saying we can't hang out anymore, it's a bad idea. How she wants me, but can't have me, because the timing is bad. Just whacky **** like how much she likes me, but it would never work out. And then say it's best we just only communicate for school purposes to make it easier.. Meanwhile, she is sending me attention whoring texts. I don't get it.
Keep in mind we have class during the middle of all this and she is constantly flirting with me. And fwiw has said she doesn't do relationships.
Is the recommended option just to go really cold to her here? Ignore texts, just be professional in class, and let her chase / figure out her bull****?
I met one of the best looking chicks I've ever seen in my life in one of my classes this semester. We hit it off right away and it was obvious she wanted me after like the 2nd week of class or so.
Soon there after, we exchange numbers, began texting a little, nothing serious. And then we go out after class a few times and the sexual tension was obvious. Eventually, we start making out one night and she stops and tells me we can't do this, she is figuring things out with an ex-boyfriend or something. I laugh it off and she keeps kissing me. A few days later and the next time we go out we sleep together. And it got weird after like it usually does.
I asked her to hang out a few times after this night and she declined.
3-4 days later she texts me and tells me to come up to a bar she's at. I was at a local bar near there and stopped by a few hours later. We were dancing a little, flirting, same **** as usual. I was really drunk and she offered to drive me home. I agree and on the ride home she hit me with a ton of emotional ****. When we got outside my house, she asked me why I slept with her, she had to know. She thought I used her. She was almost crying at this point. I basically told her I didn't use her, but never gave her a great reason on why I did. I got out of the car pissed off, walked to my door while waiting for my roommate to answer, and she was still waiting outside. I told her to fvck off (lol) my roommate was coming.
She immediately starts blowing me up with really emotional texts how I am an *******. How she misses me every single day, wishes she was the only girl I was talking to, how she wants me all to herself. And just really crazy **** that caught me totally off guard since we haven't known eachother long. And I had no idea she felt this way, especially after she blew me off after we fvcked the first time.
Anyways, the next night I like an idiot agree to go out with this girl (she is ridiculously hot and I can't help myself, it's really embarrassing) .. We go out, she purposely gets me drunk, and we end up sleeping together again. The very next day she starts with the whacky **** saying we can't hang out anymore, it's a bad idea. How she wants me, but can't have me, because the timing is bad. Just whacky **** like how much she likes me, but it would never work out. And then say it's best we just only communicate for school purposes to make it easier.. Meanwhile, she is sending me attention whoring texts. I don't get it.
Keep in mind we have class during the middle of all this and she is constantly flirting with me. And fwiw has said she doesn't do relationships.
Is the recommended option just to go really cold to her here? Ignore texts, just be professional in class, and let her chase / figure out her bull****?