Mauser96 said:
I guess you didn't watch it. The video is all about walking away, exactly as you say. The point of it is, to NOT beg, not chase, simply walk away...and then if she returns, and you WANT to take her back......you have that option. Ifyou don't, like many wouldn't (me usually included) so be it. The point of it is to NOT pursue.
But hey, different opinions are what we are here for!
The point is not to go back like a beta for a repeat. The woman might fear a loss when you leave from her emotions. After you return, she will begin to behave the same way gaining control again when you are still behaving the same as you did before. Nothing is changing at all.
ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Not true. You trust your gut with what you feel is right. Not necessarily what you want either, just with what's right. And if you fvcked up to give your girl an actual reason to dump you, then you could go back to her. Only if you feel it's right though. And most of the time, you don't feel like it's the right choice either.
Yes it is true. You have no idea what you are talking about. Your gut, what you feel is right does NOT matter. What matters is her feelings and her emotions. If she doesn't want you back, you will never have her back, you are just a beta yearning for her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
And there isn't anything wrong with wanting a girl either. If a girl is constantly on your mind though and is the only thing you care about, THAT is true beta behavior.
Who said there was anything wrong with it? No, being a beta is wanting a woman who doesn't want you, while you're doing everything possible still trying to get her back. Like watching videos like these.
ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
There aren't definitive lines between beta and alpha either you know. Just mere guidelines. And like Yorkex said, you do take the alpha beta thing way too seriously.
An alpha would never go through this much trouble trying to get a woman back who lost her love. Not taking it seriously at all, just telling the truth here that you don't like to hear.
Stugots26 said:
Women simply do NOT think that a man walking away but leaving the door open is beta and they've got you wrapped around your finger. You're projecting your own male logical argument on women, and that's your fear talking. You do not have to be wrapped around a woman's finger if you do not want to be. You have to instead think about the effect that walking away has on women.
Women respond EMOTIONALLY. They may be turned off emotionally, and have responded in the moment by dumping you, but what walking away yet leaving the door open does is trigger their irrational fear of loss. If they're at all interested in you, they will respond emotionally and become afraid that they have lost you, and their emotions will change. Women's emotions change by the moment.
If they start pursuing you again, and you've taken control, they are NOT thinking logically that they can have you at any time and that you're such a beta, unless you start doing everything wrong and giving your power away. As long as you have incited their fear that you are done and really are moving on with your life, they will respond emotionally and in the moment and start yearning for you if there's any attraction left. I've made it happen. It's like the past is erased.
Not true at all. The only reason the woman is pursuing you again is because she has no other options currently besides YOU. When someone better enters the picture, you will have a repeat from the first time.
The past is never erased, if it was, you would still be in a relationship with that woman leading it.
Women will never forget how they manipulated you. Women will never forget how they gained the upper hand. Women will never forget your biggest beta moment. Women will never forget your weakness that made her lose attraction. They tuck that away in the back of their minds so they can use it against you the next time they want to gain control.
