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Testosterone and estrogen exist in quantities within all of us.
Just by ACTING a certain way does not mean you encompass qualities of someone with high testosterone. In fact, it's the people not conscious or conscientious of it that have loads of it.
Testosterone by and large, is controlled by genetics, unless you down d-bol.
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Litmus tests concluded most high test candidates were construction workers, prisoners, and football players/athletes (pro's; like you didn't already know). It isn't about acting like a symp trying to pawn off your testosterone nature or faking til you make it.
You have what you have. That's it. How you do it? You just do it. That's how. There's path or plan.
To me, by TRYING to do it, you totally kill it. TRYING to do anything means you naturally are NOT DOING it. It's like most women are not being women, nor are they men. They are women ACTING like men, which is an impossibility. They aren't acting feminine and they aren't acting masculine, because they can't.
Remember the lion from The Wizard of Oz? He ACTING like a lion, and he was one, but when the situation called for it, he wasn't a lion. He had the outside world (the wizard) give him his courage. He'd lost his courage, at least in his own mind. Thing is, HE is a LION by definition, so there isn't anything more than he must do than growl, claw and kill.
Same as men. You can't be MALE and try to act it. That's the thing about PUA/DJ/SS...it must be molded into who you are.
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I have a feeling you're very young Cardio, even if you're pushing 18 or more. Young in mind, young in heart. And that's ok. But this male-thing isn't what you make it. It comes. We are who we are through what we do. People aren't brave because they walk a certain way. They're brave by their daily actions. By the way they live. By what's in their heart.
Get off the site for awhile, or for good. Truly ALL sites of this nature, if not for reasons OTHER than women really and truly hurt them. I believe because it makes men CONSCIOUS of what we are. It's a reflecting pool, like "oh my God, other guys are doing this, too!" So when you're at a party you're playing some game of SIMS in your mind feeling out the whole scene, trying to predict what's gonna happen, and what moves are going to happen, etc.
HOW LAME is that? Life isn't meant to be that planned, if it was, it wouldn't be fun. Quite honestly, I don't want people to tell me what to do. I like to figure it out and fvck it up on my own. Why?
Because if some guy posted a FR on it, it may have not worked, then I might not try something that might have worked for me based on my situation and personality.
You guys put WAY too much emphasis on this shyt. Really. I'd rather here guys spitting time about XBOX 360, because at least women EXPECT boys/men to play games, and I know some cool cats that score tons of pvss and play games late at night, with even their chicks playing. Why?
Because THAT makes them happy. They're gal might not be a HB10 the elusive wonder of all men on the site, but she's damn hot enough to get him going when he gets home from work. And guess? She's cool enough to let him play games, give him a BJ during them, and make dinner after.
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Any PUA site, like anything out, develops a mental society. A following. Other sites do the same. It's all a bunch of realities, fake or otherwise, operating in the world. You worrying about people following it? Don't. Just like some guys won't go PUA, others won't go DJ.
I know there's a lot of NOOBS, daily, I bet, and I have cousins turning 17, just getting in to things, and the one thing I tell him is "don't be afraid to fail". I laugh everyday at the shyt I did, and by doing it, not only did I learn what WORKED and didn't, I developed a hard enough shell NOT to care. I don't even NEED the attitude to care or not, because I went through it. If you need the attitude...you're working through the SYMPTOMS. You're giving power to YOUR fear. And guess what?
Fear grows faster, because you must beef up the confidence.
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Dudes THIS IS FVCKING LIFE. Not a science experiment. i know the site, and any site proposing that there's a tried and true method of getting chicks appeals to the logics out there, which is why there's so many posts, so many questions, so many ACTUAL methods...but this isn't rocket science anymore than being a millionaire is a precise science.
The best chances available to ANYONE is merely to act. That's it. Stop -thinking life through so much. Seriously. Bring your fingers if you must to prevent the question-asking.
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To me, the question on chicks, is like anything else, something that is a "tell" of how you are as a guy/man. It's not the ONLY area that is questionable for guys, it just seems to be the most obvious and popular to guys. That's why we post on it. That's why guys come to it.
I'm by no means 100% right even now...but I do know it's painful to watch the mounting posts that seem like more pain than pleasure. If there was TRUE pleasure, guys would come back with "hey check this out" whether it was video games, cars, chicks, business, work. Sure it might be a girl-pickup site...BUT the best pick-ups happen when you're not TRYING to do it.
I could be completely wrong for the lot of you guys...BUT I do know that women don't consume my life, and the biggest wake up I had about women is that women I came to sites like this, I ALREADY PLACED THEM ON PEDASTAL WAY TOOOO MUCH to get them regularly. Once I began coming here to read, to assist, and to spit time on video games, business, motivational things, I was benefiting.
That's just me tho...
A-Unit
