Ive been with this chick for about a month and a bit now, so far everything has been going well - we are taking it easy and want the relationship to grow etc. We are aiming at LTR and we are very close physically.
One thing thats frustrating me is her male friends. Some of them she had flings with, and then from there she turned them into friends. Often when im with her shes getting smsing from these 'friends' asking what shes doing, if shes with me etc.
The problem is she wants to keep these friendships (because thats all they are to her), and she thinks these guys feel the same way because they agree they are only friends. These guys are pure afcs. Me on the other hand, i rocked up onto the scene and didnt want to be her friend and made it clear.
Ive told her numerious times im not happy out of principle that she spends a lot of her leisure time with these blokes (often in 1 on 1 situations). She usually agrees with me, however it turns into her saying "oh but ive been friends with him for ages" etc etc. I nearly always have to threaten her its either them or me. As i work long hours and dont have much time for her, i place a lot of value on our time together. Her on the other hand, lots of spare time (doing arts at university ) and shes spending probably more time with these AFCs than me.
Any thoughts/advice?
One thing thats frustrating me is her male friends. Some of them she had flings with, and then from there she turned them into friends. Often when im with her shes getting smsing from these 'friends' asking what shes doing, if shes with me etc.
The problem is she wants to keep these friendships (because thats all they are to her), and she thinks these guys feel the same way because they agree they are only friends. These guys are pure afcs. Me on the other hand, i rocked up onto the scene and didnt want to be her friend and made it clear.
Ive told her numerious times im not happy out of principle that she spends a lot of her leisure time with these blokes (often in 1 on 1 situations). She usually agrees with me, however it turns into her saying "oh but ive been friends with him for ages" etc etc. I nearly always have to threaten her its either them or me. As i work long hours and dont have much time for her, i place a lot of value on our time together. Her on the other hand, lots of spare time (doing arts at university ) and shes spending probably more time with these AFCs than me.
Any thoughts/advice?