Her interest level?

[uly55]

Ok there's this chick i'm interested in and I want to find out how interesed she is in me. I first met her at my tai chi class.She was very quite and we only said basic hellos and stuff.3 months down the track she left tai chi, I saw her in a shop and said hello and had a bit of a conversation with her.She started coming into my work (a supermarket), we had quick conversations and such ( I was interested in another chick at the time, so I didn't do anything about her). Then she dissapeared for about 2 months. She started coming into my work again.She showed me one time her new tattoo under her low cut jeans line (which I was very happy about).she's always happy to see me big smile and we talk abit more now. Just before she went away again for 4 weeks. I saw her with her boyfriend.The next time she came in I said was that ur boyfriend? and you two make a good couple(probably the wrong thing to say). she said yes and thanks, but then went very quite, and almost look sad? Ok so after her holiday she comes into work and is all happy again.

How can I find out her interest level in me while I'm at work? I don't want to get sacked for hitting on chicks at work!

And I don't want to enter the friendzone with her.She has the personality and best looks of any chick that has been interested in me!But if she is only moderately interested in me then I will not persue her (I can move onto other chicks).

Oh and her bf is rich and drives a flash car and is fairly good looking.He is no dj and doesn't seem to have a great personality.

Any ideas?

Uly

 

[MoMurda]

..

bang her

 

[deeman]

i would say, the next time she comes in, if you are not busy, ask her to come outside and join you on your break (thats if you can take a break at anytime).
If she says she cant, then ask if she wants to do it another time and be quiet, see what she says. If she says yes to the initial offer then go outside, chat with her and ask her out 4 coffee or lunch then. If she agrees just get the number.

I would say she has a certain level of interst in you IF, when she comes to the store, she seeks you out, i.e, she comes to your cash register when there are 10 other ones open. Keep us posted.

 

[OddTech]

Well, we're back at the "how can I date a girl with a BF" thing. It's simple, if you want to know her interest level, just ask her out. Do what Deeman said. My guess is that she has some IL in you. She expects you to INITIATE. Remember that. Good luck.

 

[PEACEDJ]

Be VERY VERY blunt, and ask her out. If she goes well I have a b/f then you straight up tell her, "What because of your b/f you can't even go out for a kickass time?"

 

[uly55]

MoMurda - LOL nice thought!!

deeman - yeah , I will do that. I was thinking of doing that anyway.I'd say she has some interest level in me. When I'm on registers she does 98% of the time come to mine.

OddTech - yeah I will initiate

PEACEDJ - Had already planned to say something like that.

I will keep u guys posted as to how I go with this chick. Also, if she dumps her Bf for me, Won't she do this in the future to me when someone better comes along?

Uly