HELPPPPPPP am I seeing her to much already or ?

[echo1212]

"The funny thing is that all 3 went to someone else while we were together. Yeah I am a nice guy and would do anything for a girl. Thats why I can't understand how someone could fall for a guy like her ex."

Guys, this is a classic, and I do mean CLASSIC example of what an AFC is. It can't get any clearer. This whole thread should go into the DJ bible so its stands as a shining example of what not to do. I mean I couldn't have made this up any better if I tried.

Dude, don't you see a pattern there? You were the classic nice guy, gave them anything they wanted..like you are now.. and they left you EVERY time!!!!! Do you need to be hit over the head with a 2x4?

If you come to this site often enough, read the dj bible, all of the message boards and thier advice, field reports, and tips, you will learn what it is to become a dj and to start acttracting AND KEEPING WOMEN.

When I say DJ, I mean don't coddle to women like you do. Be confident, somewhat ****y but not a total jerk. Let the women know that you are the prize here, women should be showering you with affection, not the other way around.

In a sense your lucky that you have found this site already in your life and can now use it too full advantage. This wasnt around when i was 20 so I had to learn the hard way. Use it my friend. Embrace this knowledge for all its worth. Now go.

 

[Slowandeasy]

Guys mistake me if I am wrong here. I am hearing what you say. But lets just ASSUME, that this girl is ready to be in a serious LTR now and although she has thrown away a few "nice guy types" in the past shes now ready for one. ESPECIALLY after the guy she was just with. So if I run I miss out on somthing as she is a good hearted person towards me.
One thing that was pretty amusing though is last night her and her ex were on the phone fighting about somthing. " I just walked in her apt. and caught the tail end of it".
I heard this girl tell him that I am treating her better in 2 weeks than he did in 8 MONTHS. I guess they also got into a fight about his mom as I guess she told her off when she saw her.
I have never heard this from a girl but she told him his mom was a f*cking C*nt, "Bit*c and a few other names because of his mom telling her off. I heard the guy screaming over the phone after that so I guess he was pretty pissed off. YIKES"
I know this guy and I am starting to think that shes in it to be with me because apparently she is fed up with his crap. I have started to let her work at my shop answering the phone and such so we see each other more than ever.
I know you guys don't believe me but shes over this guy and ready to be treated RIGHT!
The thing that bothers me is that I picked up the phone and told him to not "threaten" my girlfriend" and he went OFF
This guy is like 31 and is pretty well known and liked in this town but I don't give a rats arse because he BLEW IT. Funny thing is that he told me on the phone that I need to take my little punk ARSE off the phone and shove it back up her ARSE where it belongs. He also proceded to tell me that this had better be the LAST TIME I ever speak to him or he is going to hurt me? WTF. Oh, and he also said that If I ever get in his face hes going to simply make be disappear. WTF does that mean???????????
This dude is like 31 and hangs out with the cops, prison workers, bouncers, etc.. you know the type so this old geezer doesnt really scare me.
Oh well, I think you guys may have miscalled this one as shes into me and I don't think she wants him back at ALL after seeing that last night.