Helpp, plz interpret what this text means

donjuan332

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so ive been hanging out with this chick and ****ing her, no strings attached though, she has a long distance bf. just in it for the sex.

anyway i was texing her and teasing her and called her really sensitive since she whines i dont hang out with her enough.

after i called her sensitive she texts this

"i am sensitive. it sux, i wish i didnt care what people think.i do care but only when its certain people.i honestly dont know why i care what YOU think but do and it sucks. i dont want to feel anything emotionally for you, just physically. sorry for being emo.."

dont exactly know what that means but should i get out because i alls i want is sex, nothing else
 

GuanYu

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Her text is basically trying to get you to open up a little. Maybe even to say that you care about her too.

Best bet is to just ignore her messages that have anything to do with emotional attachments. If she directly asks you "do you care about me?" or something similar just give her a "of course" type of response but nothing that may give her the idea you're falling for her.

I have a few fvck buddies atm that like to send emotional messages and give off vibes that I mean more to them from time to time. I think this is a trap that attempts to get the guy to open up, which will inevitably turn them off since you're just fvck buddies. Don't fall for the trap and keep smashing.
 

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GuanYu said:
Her text is basically trying to get you to open up a little. Maybe even to say that you care about her too.

Best bet is to just ignore her messages that have anything to do with emotional attachments. If she directly asks you "do you care about me?" or something similar just give her a "of course" type of response but nothing that may give her the idea you're falling for her.

I have a few fvck buddies atm that like to send emotional messages and give off vibes that I mean more to them from time to time. I think this is a trap that attempts to get the guy to open up, which will inevitably turn them off since you're just fvck buddies. Don't fall for the trap and keep smashing.

damn, a few??? hell, i would be happy with one fvck buddy much less a few.haha you guys make me sick with your problems about interpreting what a text means.lol just be glad you arent in a major slump like i've been lately! i can't seem to do ANYTHING right.
 

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Ok I would think she knows of her status with you currently, which is just purely physical. And I think you guys has been spending quite some time together.

However, as she goes along, she got a little emotionally attached to you and now she is feeling the guilt. She is just letting off some of her emotions probably.

Yep so my take is just act normally and don't get dragged down into being emotional with her.

Just take note she might want to tie you down for some reason if anything happens over at her side with her bf. So if you don't feel for her, then don't fall for it.

Don't over analyse this as well haha. Anyway it is just my opinion it might not be correct as well.

Anyway I'm just a bit curious as well, why are you going physical with a girl that has bf?

Please don't take offense I feel there are lots of singles out there. Also, you won't want to be in the man's position as well isn't it? When you go overseas for business and someone else is getting physical with your girlfriend/wife.
 
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It appears as though she has developed an emotional attachment to you. I would say time to cut her loose before it gets worse.
 

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RFish said:
Anyway I'm just a bit curious as well, why are you going physical with a girl that has bf?

Please don't take offense I feel there are lots of singles out there. Also, you won't want to be in the man's position as well isn't it? When you go overseas for business and someone else is getting physical with your girlfriend/wife.
Women that aren't married are single. The divorce rate in the US is well over 50%. If people don't give a flying fvck about marriage, then a "relationship" is even more worthless.

Chicks with BF's are fair game if they decide to reciprocate advances and potential new d!ck. He's just doing what any other guy would do if given the chance.

Obviously the OP must know not to get emotionally attached to this girl. Since she clearly doesn't respect her bf she'd more than likely ditch him too if she felt like it.

Keep banging man just don't be stupid and make her your gf.
 

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MyBloodyValentine said:
It appears as though she has developed an emotional attachment to you. I would say time to cut her loose before it gets worse.
He's right, it sounds like she is getting attached to you. I would get rid of her if you're not looking for anything more than a fvck buddy.
 

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IME, fvck buddy relationships are fleeting for this exact reason. A woman can surely hook up for a ONS and it's all good, but a woman cannot have sex regularly with a guy without getting feelings and eventually using the sex to try to reel him in.

"If I have sex with him so often, I must want him to be my bf."

My last gf was my main fvck buddy for two years before I committed to her.
 

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update*


i said nothing back to this chick . her bfs coming for a visit and the last few times weve hung out shes done these kinds of things.

layed out a tshirt on the end of her bed in front of me that says "i love my bf" right in front of me.

made a point to talk on the phone directly in front of me with her bf and shown me her new wallpaper on her phone(which is her bf)

said she loves a certain song because it talks about how a girl is sleeping with another man but all she can think about is her bf.

girl is trying to get me jealous or something. thinking bout cutting her off altogether
 
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^ like they have all said, it appears that she is starting to get emotionally attatched to you. Like GuanYu said, she wants you to open up a little. .She might also want you to be her boyfriend, and is feeling guilty like Phenoix said.
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