Keeper said:
Omg. People, yes, I know about attention *****s. And if a girl I was persuing did this I would tune her straight.
But for fvck sakes... it's just a long time friend. Ehh... Who cares is she's an AW. I just gave her some advice, cause that's what she asked me for. :/ All this flaming is totally uncalled for.
Thanks to the few who said something useful.
keeper... I'm going to say this as nicely as possible.
We can't help people who don't want help.
You can't be helped unless you want to hear the truth.
Do you think we want you to fail?
don't you know that EVERY LAST FREAKING GUY here has been in your EXACT same situtation?
You think we got our advice from a book, or that you are somehow different?
Just do a search on my name.... my "friend", who I've known now for 8 years used to do the same crap.
Trust me, if a woman wants a man to leave him alone, she knows how. Think of the logic here.. if she is really a HB10, don't you think she has a little bit more experience with relationships than you do? and that's no slight against you, it's just how it is... I do well for myself, but women get gawked at at least 1 time a day, even if they aren't cute. I couldn't take my old "friend" out without having to beat off a guy.
We don't talk anymore... we are on great terms, but I finally came to the conclusion that i can't look at her without wanting to **** her brains out, so I cut off all contact with her.. best thing I could have ever done.
And the sad thing is, we really are pretty good friends. I had a drug problem, she spent the night with me for damn near a week to help me get over it and woudln't leave. if I have, or had a problem, I could honestly tell her and she would honestly listen.. she wouldn't say much because she's not the brightest person on earth, but she cared... but there was one problem.... she's 5'8, columbian/white with red hair that comes down to the middle of her back, a size 1 with long legs. Friends or not, i wanted to **** her.
Growing up is realizing past mistakes, and moving on. Up into a half a year ago, I was STILL paying for AFCish mistakes I made when i was 17!!!! Out of all the time I had spent with her, I had about 2 days out of thoose years to make a move and I blew it. Friend zone. Deal with it.
Let me tell you this story.. she used to call me, like clockwork, at about 12:45 everynight (At this time I think I was 22). I'm doing very well for myself at this time, I'm out dating, i have a little money in my pocket, I own my house, I have a nice car, dress nice, can go where I want.. but my dumb ass is stuck at home waiting on her call. She'd call, we would talk about nothing, or the "drama" in her life until she fell asleep... but we are "friends". all the time, she knew what she was doing. And if for one second I didn't think she DID, besides actually having sex in the past to keep me close to her, I took her to a strip club about a year ago, and after a couple of drinks, she hops on me, with her skirt on, her high heels, takes my hand puts it in her pvssy, licks me in the ear and tells me "I know you want to **** me, I can see the way you look at me". As long as I knew her, we had sex 3 times, that night and two times earlier when she thought I was possibly not giving her my undivided attention.
she used to tell me how big of an chump her current BF is, how blah blah blah, how she doesn't like him.... but on Saturday nights, when I couldn't get ahold of her, where was she? You guessed right.
her current BF and what made me snap out of it, was the worst of alll.. she told me she thought he was gay.. than one day she told me out of the blue she is going on a date with him.... to see if he was gay or not. (yeah).. mind you we have no vested interest in each other. Then she tells me (in her own words) she can't stand him because he worships her, how he always wants to spend time with her, how he is bad in bed, how he is boring... then one day she just blurts out they are dating. She calls me every day (literarly) telling me how much she doesn't like him, how she is looking for other guys, yet on the weekends, where is she? yep.
And somehow I thought I was "better" then these chumps, which she wasn't lying, they really are that bad, i've seen it... but I'm worse because at least they are ****ing her on a constant basis.
what I am getting at is, don't listen to what she says but look at what she does. If she doesn't want guys around, they won't be around (I promise you).
