help!!!!

[northerly77]

Hey guy's, any help would be greatly appeciated.heres my story: there's this hot chick in my class, from the beginning of the year she has been checking me out in class every day.anyways this goes on for 4 months before i get the guts to speak to her.(i'm very shy ya see) anyway after a brief conversation i decide she's not interested, and i had misread the signals. i then do not talk to her for 2 further months, meanwhile she continues to cheack me out. so i become friends with a dude shes friends with, and at lunch she starts sittig with us. one day in class she sits next to me in class , she never had before. now here the wierd thing just as i'm starting to get friendly with this chick, she starts checking out another dude in the class. now he's got the hots for her. anyway class is out for holidays. when we get back to school, this chick walks in , doesnt make eye contact with me (i sit right next to the door) she just snubs me. don't know what i did to turn her off. what should i do?

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Sorry to disappoint cha son but you get a "no deal" out of this one.

Why didn't you try to go after this girl six months ago? The shy behavior will get you nowhere. She already place you in the friends category, if that. Charge this to da game.

Remember next time to talk to the female regardless of the thought you have on the outcome.

 

[Walden]

Yeah I hate to agree with bad news. I mean by all means have a go but your moment was six months ago.

Also you have to know man, the only reason you didn't get her was cos you just sat there and watched , you didn't make a move. If you'da rolled on in you might have got rejected (in which case you'd be no worse off than you are now) but at least youd have tried and learned something for next time.

Hard break man.

 

[northerly77]

there's 1 thing i forgot to tell you. the first time i talked to her she said she had a boyfriend. thanks 4 the replies

 

[Gold Heart]

Well at least you now know from experience that waiting months at a time to "read signals" and make moves will get you nowhere. Just try these things next time:

o1. Don't waste time reading signals. Assume that she likes you. If she doesn't like you, then she probably will, as long as you have done nothing to f-ck your chances up yet.

o2. It may be a different story in the classroom, but everywhere else, use the 3-second rule. The 3 second rule states that within 3 seconds of the girl making eye contact with you, you must INITIATE CONTACT. This rule gives no time for the fear to set in, because by the time you're talking, you won't feel the pre-nervousness you usually get.

Have you ever performed on a stage? If so, remember that you was nervous before you got on. But once you started performing, you didn't feel the nervousness as much anymore. It's the same way with chicks.