I notice this too. It's like nobody wants to talk to anyone who isn't already in their "group".crossboss said:I said hi, to a couple of people. What I kind of noticed, is that they seemed to find it weird that I said hi to them. Like why is some random stranger talking to me?
I don't know, why I give off this vibe. It seems that other people don't have this problem. What I also found out, when somebody actually knows me, they think it is normal. This is just my impression from the non-verbal communication signals.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
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