I notice this too. It's like nobody wants to talk to anyone who isn't already in their "group".crossboss said:I said hi, to a couple of people. What I kind of noticed, is that they seemed to find it weird that I said hi to them. Like why is some random stranger talking to me?
I don't know, why I give off this vibe. It seems that other people don't have this problem. What I also found out, when somebody actually knows me, they think it is normal. This is just my impression from the non-verbal communication signals.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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