help!!

[john_125]

ok im new to this site, maybe im too new to be starting a thread but i rly need help. ok i met a girl im 17 shes 16 and we talk when we manage to see eachother cause i live in a building and she's my neighbor so watever to make a long story short , she left to dr today but earlier like 4 hours before she left i saw her in the hallway i asked her if she can give me a kiss, and she smiled said "not now" so im like "why not?" she said "because i wont be here till august" so im just like watever then she said "let me think about it i'll knock on your door later (for the kiss) so im thinking in my head right now:all this for a freaking kiss?, but i tell her , "ok cool you better knock" she smiles and enters her mother's apartment time passes... she didnt knock..... shes probably in the plane right now as im typing this, ill see her in august i kno i made a bunch of mistakes but can you guys point them out plz, im a newbie

 

[DrD77]

never ask for a kiss. she shouldn't be the one to give you a kiss, you should. don't fall for oneitis. learn to type.

 

[leftForDeadPhoenix]

You made an approach and went for a kiss. That's better than most guys. I think the advice about going for the kiss and not asking for it was good. You probably could have tried some touching, brushing back her hair, looking into her eyes and smiling etc. Good try though.

 

[OldSP]

That sounds like me at my first attempt. Never ask for a kiss, girls tend to prefer the "moment" effect where it just "happens". If it seems casual what you can do is get a bit closer to her stop talking and look at her and smile while looking in her eyes as phoenix said. Then slowly go in. she most likely won't pull out man don't worry. And also because shes gone away for so long it will make her get more excited over seeing again if she likes you and if she doesn't it will give her heaps of time to think about you and her together.
Remember you should be the one with the confidence. Maybe plan something nice for when she comes back?

 

[chuk15]

Indeed, I get a gut instinct not to ask for kiss. I don't feel the same when I just go for it; I still feel my stomach clench just not in a repulsive way.

My first kiss was when a chick came over to my house and I just felt the time was right. Went in, and it went smooth. Her breath kinda stunk though. >_<

Don't worry man, life is long, life is prosperous and fair, don't care too much about this one little moment in time. Just be.

Hope this helps.

 

[SinJester]

If you are new read the DJ Bible. The link is on the bottom of every page here.

They guys are right, you just gotta go in for the kiss. It doesn't have to be like bam kiss, you can start by leaning in, grabbing and looking her in the eyes. From there you can judge how comfortable she is with it. Never ask unless it's playfull and confident.

 

[john_125]

thanks guys , yeah i shouldve gone in for the kiss, oh well summertime is here im gonna have fun an not et one-itis , thanks guys i appreciate the help.