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[addidasss]

there's this virgin i been with for a bout few month. we kissed, caressed, but never gone all the way, though her clothe was all off naked. then we broke up.

but we still remaain friends. recently she wants go get back with me. when i told her i already liked someone, she wants me more. before she left for vietnam, she told me to wait for her and she would sacrafice anything to have me. she lured me to fukk her. i told her i have to think about it and that i can't promise to get b ack with her. i told her the other girl likes me, so i'm considering giving the other girl a chance. she says she doesn't expect anything and told me to take my time before i decide. since she let me fukk her, i did it anyway.

then she left vietnam to help her bro in a business. she called me three or 4 times a day. she also emailed me. when i told her, i already decided to go for the other girl. she called me mean and that i am using her for her body.

then she told me she'll be back from vietnam in 2 weeks. she told me she will hate me forever. she said she will not call me or talk to me again, she wrote this in her email.

What should i do? Today she called me, i didn't pick up the phone. I don't want to talk to her. I didn't promise her i will get back with her. why is she gettting mad at me?

Sigh! help me.

 

[tmpgstx]

You azzhole ..lol.

 

[JHeights83rd]

Wow. If i was her bro, id beat the **** outta you, damn near killing you. If you do that in some places, she will get all the guys she knows to jump your ass. So you really got off easy with this.

Even though losing your virginity is not a big deal for you, it is for girls. Make sure you do love her, if youre gonna do it. You should get with her, if she lets you. You cant just take a virgin's body like that. For the most part, virgins only do it with you if you are theyre man and/or they plan on keeping you around for awhile. a girl will not just lose her virginity b/c shes horny.

What the hell were you thinking.

 

[Sean O]

Thoughtless and ignorant... you shouldn't toy with people's emotions like that, especially when they're as strong as this girl's were for you. I don't care if you have some vendetta against women for them toying with your feelings at some point in your life; two wrongs don't make a right. Take the high road and be respectful and considerate from now on.

 

[addidasss]

i use to like her but she broke up

i use to like her back then. she broke up. then when i get with another girl, she found out. all a suddend she wants me back. i tried to not let her and she find excuse for her to see me. so i end up losing control. she tries to turn me on, kisses me, rubs me. I feel a little guilty but i can't force my feeling since i'm already liking another girl and she likes me too.

now going to the solution. what do i do? can you guys please tell me to handle this.

thanks

 

[Big Eee Zee]

you all should back the fvck off. i swear, this board is full of mouth breathers.

its ok to bang a married chick, but not if her husband is in iraq.
its ok to have multiple girls, but doing a virgin is a bad idea.

figure out an ethical viewpoint and stick to it.

 

[DJDamage]

she called me three or 4 times a day. she also emailed me. when i told her, i already decided to go for the other girl. she called me mean and that i am using her for her body.

Your mistake is giving a chick you are dating too much information on other chicks you are seeing. If you would have played it right and just casually mentioned you are hanging out with other girls, you could easily been spinning both plates to your advantage. If you didn't want to see that girl anymore its enough to tell them that you don't want to see them anymore with out giving away to much details.

What should i do? Today she called me, i didn't pick up the phone. I don't want to talk to her. I didn't promise her i will get back with her. why is she gettting mad at me?

Do nothing don't play her game, let her blow some steam on her own without getting involved . I am almost positive that eventually she will crack down and call you to say she is sorry for what she said and that she is missing you. That is when you tell her that her behaviour was disrespectful and if she wants you back in her life she would HAVE TO MAKE IT UP TO YOU and thus you win again.

DJD

 

[carloz_gangsta]

there's this virgin i been with for a bout few month. we kissed, caressed, but never gone all the way, though her clothe was all off naked. then we broke up.

but we still remaain friends. recently she wants go get back with me. when i told her i already liked someone, she wants me more. before she left for vietnam, she told me to wait for her and she would sacrafice anything to have me. she lured me to fukk her. i told her i have to think about it and that i can't promise to get b ack with her. i told her the other girl likes me, so i'm considering giving the other girl a chance. she says she doesn't expect anything and told me to take my time before i decide. since she let me fukk her, i did it anyway.

then she left vietnam to help her bro in a business. she called me three or 4 times a day. she also emailed me. when i told her, i already decided to go for the other girl. she called me mean and that i am using her for her body.

then she told me she'll be back from vietnam in 2 weeks. she told me she will hate me forever. she said she will not call me or talk to me again, she wrote this in her email.

What should i do? Today she called me, i didn't pick up the phone. I don't want to talk to her. I didn't promise her i will get back with her. why is she gettting mad at me?

Sigh! help me.

damn bro,u need to think about her u kinda seem emotionless man call her and apologize that sh!t isnt funny.

 

[addidasss]

i learned my lesson. i still don't think it's my fault. this girl tried to break up with me, then want to be friends.

i didn't cheat on her, i told her i'm already seeing someone else because we were no longer together. she didn't mind me seeing other girl. she's willing to sacrifice her body for me. i tried to push her away, but she still wanted me back and begged me to forgive her for breaking up with her. what the heck.

as for the other gal i'm seeing, i told her i'm wasn't ready for any serious relationship. I still like to take time to get to know her. i had sex with her too and she liked it. this one didn't even asked me if i'm seeing anyone else.

well, anyways, things complicated with virgin as i now realized.

today the virgin gal called to apologize for having written what she wrote me on email. she said she wrot me mean stuff just at the moment she was mad. she said she still wants to be friends. i told her i'm not mad at her and that we can always be friends. i talked to her about two minutes then i made excuse that i had stuff to do so i had to go.

what i need now is not someone to induce guilt on me when it already happened. what i really need is suggestions or tips to handle the situation that already happened. Thanks.