I used to go to highschool with this girl. I left town for 9 months to go to
college, I came back, and found this girl's MySpace page and sent her a
message. She responded - it went very well and she even called me cute and
showed interest enough to give me her number so I could take her out. I
realize I really screwed up by calling her too soon but it seemed like she really
wanted me to call her. My problem is this: when I called it went straight to
voice mail and I left a message (another mistake). She hasn't called me back
nor have I talked to her online for 3 days. Normally I would forget about
the girl but I really like her - of course it is possible she didn't get the
message (I hope that's the case) but what do you think I should do? I know as soon as you start chasing a girl she will lose all attraction for you and I really don't want to mess this up. It's been 3 days since I called and I'm hoping she will contact me but this sucks. I am thinking of writing a ****y letter like "You know if you want to go out with me you should probably return my call" making me out to be the prize" but maybe this is a bad idea. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
college, I came back, and found this girl's MySpace page and sent her a
message. She responded - it went very well and she even called me cute and
showed interest enough to give me her number so I could take her out. I
realize I really screwed up by calling her too soon but it seemed like she really
wanted me to call her. My problem is this: when I called it went straight to
voice mail and I left a message (another mistake). She hasn't called me back
nor have I talked to her online for 3 days. Normally I would forget about
the girl but I really like her - of course it is possible she didn't get the
message (I hope that's the case) but what do you think I should do? I know as soon as you start chasing a girl she will lose all attraction for you and I really don't want to mess this up. It's been 3 days since I called and I'm hoping she will contact me but this sucks. I am thinking of writing a ****y letter like "You know if you want to go out with me you should probably return my call" making me out to be the prize" but maybe this is a bad idea. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.