Ok so here's my situation. I'm now 18 years old, and have been loving clubbing an what not, I have picked up quite a few girls.
None I've ever really liked anymore than a casual hookup, but one girl that came to a party I had (my mates younger sister), I was really keen on her. She had a boyfriend at the time though, so I just made friends with her.
About a month ago they broke up after an 8 month relationship. I realised this was a big opportunity for me, so I invited her to my cousins 18th birthday in an attempt to hook up with her. We didn't hook up at the party but I told her I thought she was a gorgeous girl, and that I was keen, and we hooked up for hours back at my place.
We spent the whole next day in bed just kissing and stuff, an then I drove her home in the evening.
She invited me a few days later down to the city with her, her brother, and her brothers girlfriend, went bowling, went shopping, that sort of stuff, she kept holding my hand, and we'd kiss whenever her brother wasn't watching (he's really protective of her, but he's pretty cool with me seeing her)
We exchanged messages between then, some asking where do we go from here... she told me how shes not ready for a relationship or anything yet, as the breakup still hurts. She said she'd "love" to keep seeing me unformally, aslong as I promised not to get too attached, but she doesn't want me getting hurt (probably because shes single an might see other guys too?).
I decided not to message her for a day or 2, just to see if she would, and what do you know I get a message asking me if I want to go around to her house after work. I went there after work, met her parents and hung out there for a bit, we went into her room and just made out for hours while listening to music, and had big deep an meaningful convos. I suddenly left because it was getting really late, and I had to get up early in the morning for work... she said it was "gay" that I had to leave... but I thought its better if I go while the night was on a high.
Since then we've exchanged a few messages, but nothing special really... this all happened within about a week, but since then its been a few days and not many messages. I decided to not message again, to give her some space, but I got frustrated as she didn't message. The messages now have been boring like "what are you doing.... not much" etc.
Where and what do I do from here....... Iam really keen on this girl.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance!!!
None I've ever really liked anymore than a casual hookup, but one girl that came to a party I had (my mates younger sister), I was really keen on her. She had a boyfriend at the time though, so I just made friends with her.
About a month ago they broke up after an 8 month relationship. I realised this was a big opportunity for me, so I invited her to my cousins 18th birthday in an attempt to hook up with her. We didn't hook up at the party but I told her I thought she was a gorgeous girl, and that I was keen, and we hooked up for hours back at my place.
We spent the whole next day in bed just kissing and stuff, an then I drove her home in the evening.
She invited me a few days later down to the city with her, her brother, and her brothers girlfriend, went bowling, went shopping, that sort of stuff, she kept holding my hand, and we'd kiss whenever her brother wasn't watching (he's really protective of her, but he's pretty cool with me seeing her)
We exchanged messages between then, some asking where do we go from here... she told me how shes not ready for a relationship or anything yet, as the breakup still hurts. She said she'd "love" to keep seeing me unformally, aslong as I promised not to get too attached, but she doesn't want me getting hurt (probably because shes single an might see other guys too?).
I decided not to message her for a day or 2, just to see if she would, and what do you know I get a message asking me if I want to go around to her house after work. I went there after work, met her parents and hung out there for a bit, we went into her room and just made out for hours while listening to music, and had big deep an meaningful convos. I suddenly left because it was getting really late, and I had to get up early in the morning for work... she said it was "gay" that I had to leave... but I thought its better if I go while the night was on a high.
Since then we've exchanged a few messages, but nothing special really... this all happened within about a week, but since then its been a few days and not many messages. I decided to not message again, to give her some space, but I got frustrated as she didn't message. The messages now have been boring like "what are you doing.... not much" etc.
Where and what do I do from here....... Iam really keen on this girl.
What do you think?
Thanks in advance!!!
